4 Ways to Have a Better Relationship

in relationship •  7 years ago 

No matter what relationship you have with your closed one, it is very important for a person to pay attention to a few things that can help avoid any misunderstandings and arguments. Relationship is a very important part of a human life and without it we are not more than a robot. It is what separates us from other living things on the planet. Human being have this amazing gift to express itself and show its feelings to others. It doesn’t matter whether you are in a corporate world or having a social interaction it is very important for a person to follow and pay attention to some basic things that can really help us to build a better relationship. 



Listen and Understand 


Most of the times, misunderstanding develops because we don’t really listen what the other person is trying to say and express. Our brain is so busy thinking about things that doesn’t even matter in the current moment. In order to build up a strong relationship it is very important for a person to listen carefully and pay full attention to the conversation. Try to understand what is the other person trying to convey to you or else you will never be able to make a strong relationship with others.  



Truth and Lies 


Trust is one of the most important thing that you should always build and you need to understand once it is broken, will never be the same. No matter what relationship you are in, if you are not trustworthy then you cannot have a strong relationship in your life. Trust is the most important ingredient of a relationship and without it, the relationship is going to suck and going to have a lot of trouble. Lies are good only if it helps others to get better. 



Perspective 


Viewing and understanding things from the other person’s perspective is a very important and can help to convey your thoughts and help the other person to understand better and not feel offended in any way. In most of the cases the people are so selfish and self oriented that they forgot to think about other’s perspective. They just keep on saying things without thinking that if they are really getting what you are saying. By having a healthy consciousness about other’s perspective can really help you to build a stronger bond and caring relationship. 




Appreciate 


Well, who doesn’t love to be appreciated? Everyone does. If you can expect some appreciation over things that you have done greatly and when you don’t receive that then how would you fell? Definitely not good. Now just think you might have done the same thing with others but might have not realised it. A relationship is all about appreciating each other’s qualities and paying more attention to good things that a person have rather than the bad ones. If you can make other’s feel special then you are probably the right person that they have made decision to have a relationship with. 




 

Stay Tuned!


 
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I disagree about "trust" being important.

Human beings shall not receive 100% of my trust and since I won't give 100% is it really trust? Not really. I have faith in people who deserve it.

Overall, humans are weak/fragile beings. You don't give power to the weak.

Trust is silly. "Just trust me!" - Why the need for trust? Most people break trust at some point in every relationship, including friends and family.

I believe that trust is a losing quality. I mean, why is trust needed if you never plan to betray me?

When people close to me bring up that word I quickly exit the conversation so I don't have to watch them play the victim card "what do you mean you don't trust anyone 100% not even me?" ..

Anyone focused on trust has bigger issues

Trust is a hard thing to maintain but if you are truly in a relationship then it can become pretty easy because you have nothing to lie about. In some cases, Lying can be crucial thing to follow.

Well for myself I don't have trust in my life. I have "don't fuck me over and if you do please leave".

I don't have time for trust. lol

Well, different people have different meaning of trust.

Yes and that is another reason why trust is not an important topic. One persons meaning can differ from another persons and this makes way for "abuse of trust".

Unless trust were to be a law that everyone unanimously agree's on, it doesn't really exist. You can't take something that is so meaningful to some and not others, and give it power. The result of us doing this is conflict and feelings being hurt, all because one persons meaning of a word differs from the next persons.

I don't believe in giving words power. But hey, I'm a crazy person.

I appreciate this post! The 4 ways make sense and I can see each of these being a key part in any successful relationship. These also help to point out areas that we should constantly strive for. Thanks!

Thank you so much. Totally appreciate your words :)

Awesome sharing like always

Thank you so much :)

I agree

Relationship is a compromise, not a one way street . Great work

In some way but it completely depends on you and how you take it. :)

You have a good point

You won't have to compromise if both the partner have a good level of understand between them

Relationships are too complicated in this 21 century :D

LoLx. True but not that true :)

it is the real life now a day.

Amazing post..
Honestly we are all unique and we all have much to show and much to strive for.
Cheers for the good post and much love from me..

Thank you so much :)

Very true👍

Thank you for your words :)

Great topic

Thank you :)

You are so right. I will follow you because you are full of good advice and your articles are great. Bravo and good job

Thank you so much :)

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