After marriage, husband and wife must learn to live in harmony. When you encounter difficulties or setbacks in marriage, you should work together. You should work together to find a way to actively solve the problem. Don't rush to escape, let alone shirk responsibility.
Now that you decide to marry someone, you should take the initiative to assume the corresponding responsibilities and obligations. If you are unwilling to assume the responsibilities and obligations of marriage, you should not marry someone lightly.
Marriage is never a smooth sailing thing once and for all, but it requires both husband and wife to persevere and give everything silently for the family. Only by cherishing the fate of loving each other will your relationship be longer and happier.
Always maintain good communication and close interaction
After marriage, if the husband and wife can always maintain good communication and close interaction, when they encounter problems, they will communicate and solve face to face as soon as possible. You never deliberately alienate and ignore each other, but maintain close communication anytime and anywhere, so that your relationship will get better and better.
Marriage is a long journey. In the journey of marriage, both spouses should give each other more patience and tolerance. If you always quarrel over trivial matters, are unwilling to maintain good communication, and are unwilling to spend time with each other, then it will be difficult for your marriage to be truly stable for a long time.
Since you want to maintain your marriage for a long time, you should maintain the necessary communication and interaction every day after marriage. When you encounter difficulties, you can talk to your partner or ask for help. When your partner is wronged, you should also give the necessary care and comfort in time.
Only when you can help each other in your marriage and are willing to have more interactions in your life, will the quality of your marriage be greatly improved and your relationship will get better and better.
You can always pay attention to maintaining a sense of ritual in marriage
Marriage needs a sense of ritual
If your marriage pattern remains the same, your married life is like a peaceful lake, there are no ups and downs, and your married life is too boring and monotonous, then it will be difficult for your marriage to last for a long time.
After marriage, if both husband and wife want to make your relationship better and better, they must pay attention to maintaining the sense of ceremony in the marriage. You should know how to inject a fresh breath and brilliant colors into ordinary life.
For example, you can use commemorative holidays such as wedding anniversary or Valentine's Day to express your love and care for your partner by buying gifts or writing love letters.
For example, you can travel hand in hand, relax, and find the feeling of love and heartbeat.
The sense of ritual in marriage needs to be created by both spouses. As long as you have enough heart and devotion to marriage, you will surely add luster to your marriage, and your relationship will get better and better.
Ability to persist in empathy and fully trust each other
If both husband and wife can insist on empathy and are willing to fully trust each other in the marriage, then your relationship will get better and better.
Many couples find it difficult to get to the end, often because you lack sympathy and they don't know how to switch positions in the marriage. If you are too selfish in your marriage and only consider your own interests, only care about your own feelings, and never care about the life and death of the other person, your marriage will be deeply divided over time.
If you don't want to end your marriage prematurely, you should learn to think more from the other side's standpoint after marriage. Only when you know how to consider each other and never bargain for the small things can your relationship get better and better.
At the same time, give the other party more trust and understanding after marriage. If you are always suspicious, tempting each other, and unwilling to give up sincerity easily, then your marriage will be very difficult.
The most important thing in marriage is mutual trust. Once you lose trust in each other, your emotional foundation will become extremely fragile. A trace of wind and grass may completely destroy your fragile marriage.