Don't allow anyone use the cloak of spirituality to deceive you.

in relationship •  7 years ago 

No matter how spiritual your partner sounds and looks, don't be tempted not to ask questions. Don't be tempted to assume his head will be correct on all grounds.

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Ask questions on issues that are important to you. Ask questions on controversial issues. What are your thoughts on this? What decision would you make if this happens? What's your stance in this case?

Don't assume.

No matter how much the person tries to pretend, luck will ran out one day. Something might just happen and he or she will start unwrapping his/ her foiled self.

Ask questions. The more you ask, the more you know. The more you know, the better the decisions you make. Decisions made out of an informed position are the best. Seek to know. The more you ask questions, the more easily the façade slip.

Don't assume you know anyone well enough. You don't even know yourself.

Finally, as wonderful as human knowledge is, it is limited. It is most times, corrupted. It is misleading. Learn to subject your knowledge to the scrutiny of the spirit. Rely on what God tells you about your partner. Marriage is too delicate a tool in God's hands to leave it to chance. Let God lead.

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I agree with You with most cases - like asking a questions your future partner, but keep it on mind - that we all change. Maybe not all of us change quick - or day by day - but decision we made, choices, life experience can change our mind forever.

Sure. But basic knowledge about someone can help in relating with the person to foster harmonious co-existence.