Long-distance relationships seem to be very difficult. Spacing distance makes you not easy to meet and meet face to face with your partner. Not to mention, long-term communication activities can be routine and just a ritual.
But before everything becomes really difficult and make you give up, try some tips below.
• Asking "have eaten?" Or "What are you?" Legit, but in order not to get bored, try to ask the following questions as well.
For communication not to be boring, you can spice up conversations with other questions. Because, after a busy day with each activity, it should also many things you can ask your partner. Simply, from the development of activities or work you are doing, until the latest news whether it is important events around your neighborhood or just music info, movies, books and other things related to your passion.
"You like ERK
right? They want a concert here, you know. Do not you want to go to see me? "Or
"AADC2 when it was there? I'll order the tickets, yes, because I'll be back in a full moon. "
• Plan to go to a similar place but not the same at the same time. For example, cafe or park in each city you guys
Who says the different places make you can not go enjoy a cup of tea or coffee with a warm chat with him. You can plan to go to a cafe or cafe at the same time with him. While enjoying drinks and snacks, you can share stories or joke even through electronic messages. Ignore the people around who might pout you strange, because busy happy own with your gadget. After all that happiness is just for you.
Or maybe there are similar things that you happen to meet in different places.
You: "Here it rains suddenly ..."
Your partner: "It's been here from the night of the rain ..."
And suddenly the rain is a longing that makes your heart tremble. Hehe.
• The phone should not always be in the content of vent. You can also enjoy this session by singing!
It's not everyone likes to sing with a boyfriend. But, it would not hurt to try this activity. Who knows, it can also keep you away from vent at inappropriate times (Maybe he has a lot of thoughts or problems, maybe he can not focus on your curhatan, etc.)
You can both entertain each other and forget your burden for a moment. Though your voice may sound equally unkind, but not love can make everything feel more beautiful if done together.
• Although your body apart, does not mean you can not make a project together
Healthy relationships that can make you and your partner grow together. Lucky if you and he have the same hobby, for example writing. You can make a "project" like one day writing a poem, or 30 days of storytelling. But if you and he have a different hobby, it would not hurt to also unite the two hobbies to make a work. It could be if he is a hobby of photography, while you are a hobby of writing trying to puzzle the story of the image taken by him.
Who knows also later protek you and your partner can really published and inspire the other LDR fighters, such as the owner of The Dusty Sneakers. Raga may be far apart, but that does not mean your mind can not be brought together and put together.
• Let me exclaim, make also deh competition together. The winner can ask for any gift!
If you can make a project together, it's not impossible for you and him to make a competition. It's simple, like who finishes a novel first, or who first runs a diet. As for the prizes for the competition you are doing, you and he can make a funny and silly agreement. For example aja, winning may upload a ridiculous photo that lost in Instagramnya, and the loser can not protest!
• Every now and then you have to write letters! Not just a regular letter, but also a new letter that can be opened specifically at certain times
There are times when electronic messages and calls are not enough to explain in detail the very important things. Instead of misunderstandings amongst you, it's better to take a moment to write down all your feelings and your unchals clearly.
It could also be a reminder of him to things related to you. Inspired Mikki Miller, a graphic designer from Minnesota who fills a suitcase with envelopes marked with special instructions for his partner:
"Open this letter if you're sad."
"Open this if you miss eating Pak Min."
• Do not forget to always believe. This distance is only temporary, you and he can beat him
ldr
Because timeless relationships are your goals and he, you can surely overcome the temporarily present distance. Do not give up, yes. Let's do the above tips so that your relationship and he will feel warm!