REALIZING AND GETTING OUT OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP

in relationship •  7 years ago 

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Are you getting tired of your partner? Do you guys fight a lot? Are you guys always at the opposite ends in every discussions? Does his/her presence irritates you? You don't feel love for him/her anymore?

If your answer to the above questions are Yes, then I believe you are currently in bad relationship and the best way to fix this issue is to get out of such relationship.

REALIZING IT'S A BAD RELATIONSHIP
1. Jealous and Trust Issues: When there is a little jealous in a relationship, it is actually good because it shows that both of you are scared of losing each other. But when there is high level of jealousy, it leads to lack of trust and that's an indication that such a relationship is bad for you.
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2. Communication Gap: When there is communication gap from both partners , this indicates the relationship is bad. When you guys don't talk much, and the few times you guys talk, is to rain insult on each other.

3. Not Liking Yourself Anymore: When this happens you should know that you are in a bad relationship. When your self-esteem goes down as a result of your partner, either by their actions or words, such a relationship is bad for you.

4. Not Happy Anymore: When you feel unhappy for no particular reason and your partner presence can't lift your spirit up, such a relationship is bad. You should be able to depend on your partner to give you some form of happiness and comfort in trouble time, but when this doesn't exist, such a relationship is bad.
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GETTING OUT
1. Learn To Let Go: Many people find this hard to do, but it must be done for you to find true happiness and love again. Yes, you have to let go in order to move forward and find someone who truly loves you and treats you well for who you are rather than staying in relationship where love is not equal and where you try to be someone else.
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2. Stop Waiting For Changes: You deceive yourself by sticking around hoping he/she will change but a person can't truly change his/her basic nature completely. Stop it!! he/she can't change, don't waste your time waiting. Brave up and cut off such relationship.

3. Realizing You Deserve Better: When you have this mindset, it is much easier getting off from a bad relationship, because you have already come to terms with yourself, that he/she is not the right one for you and you deserve better love, care and respect.

THANK YOU FOR READING

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Release the Kraken! You got a 14.27% upvote from @seakraken courtesy of @menoski!

Thanks @seakraken

Sometimes you have to stay in a relationship for certain reasons, you just can't leave and start over unless you can fully support yourself financially.

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Yea I understand you @herosjourney, but happiness and love comes ahead of financial stability(my own opinion). Different situations calls for different actions, but one thing you should always consider, Are you Happy and Loved?
Thanks for your wonderful contribution @herosjourney

oh wow, when you realize that you have to stay in a relationship for reasons such as money, or any reason different than love, then your life really sucks. A drastic change should be done immediately.

Bad relationship is like hell. Better to walk out than endure with more problems.

Well said.
Thanks for your contribution @evarich