What do women really need in a man?

in relationship •  6 years ago 

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this is what is actually needed and the desire of women towards men, namely:


1. Certainty of Commitment, women like this need certainty of commitment in a relationship. Where are you going to take this relationship, what is done in the future, what do we do to live together, and how to make life together be happy.


2. Can provide protection. This means that women are independent, women are as good as any woman, in fact they are fragile and try to be tough in life. They need people who can protect them when there are problems, there are shoulders who are willing to be flooded with tears every second, there are people who always give input because the woman is always unstable and always plays emotionally so it needs a man who always plays logic to help in giving input and thought.


3. Responsible. That is, this woman is willing to start life from "0" to fostering a relationship (household) when a man has a great responsibility to feed the woman and their baby, give shelter, and is responsible for leading a relationship and already surely this must be "brethren" because any life must be based on religion. Men who are fully responsible God willing / certainly the material will be sufficient and fulfilled because the provision already exists. These women are always aware that men are leaders for themselves and they are always loyal to obey what their leaders say to be able to navigate the sea of ​​the world beautifully.

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There's just one point a disagree with:

"...The woman is always unstable and always plays emotionally so it needs a man who always plays logic to help in giving input and thought."

From my experience, logic is the last thing a woman wants when she's opening up to a man and crying on his shoulder. In fact, it's exactly the opposite of what women need, I'd say. I have been attacked so many times for being a "cold son of a bitch", when in fact all I did was used my brain and tried to rationalize the situation, instead of giving in to my emotions.