Relationships nowadays are much more complicated and unpredictable than ever before. Different tastes, values, goals and variety of opportunities... Sometimes they cause more questions than answers. What works in one case will never work in the other. But there are some frequently asked questions (FAQs) that unite all the couples. And we decided to provide reasonable data driven answers.
So let’s go.
FAQS
1.Should you both be looking for each other?
For now the initiative in a relationship is still considered to be a guy’s responsibility. However, with all the modern trends girls become much more initiative than it was in the past. So we would give it 70% to men to 30% to women.
2. How to find the right person?
That’s one of the most popular questions. And here are some tips. First of all define your needs. Then look in the places he/she may possibly attend. And just talk. The more you get to know each other the better idea you have about him/her.
Here is the nice article for guys: How to get a girlfriend in 2020 and 2021. They should be more initiative, right?
3. How to ask for a date?
There is a funny expression that basically says that in fact there is no “first date” in the world. Indeed, never try to ask the person on a date. It is safer not to even use this word “date”. It is simply better to find a common topic and offer to grab a cup of coffee or tea.
4. Who Pays?
In most of the world guys should pay for a date. Sorry buddies. It’s our nature: men protect women. It includes financial security as well, whatever one tells you. However, there are some exceptions.
Here is a good article for both boys and girls: When should a woman pay for a date.
5.What is a good timing between your first dates?
Here we will have to say that it depends. The time between your first dates will depend on how good your previous date, how busy you are and how ready you are. Average time is 3-5 days. You don’t want to rush it up or make her wait too long.
Here is a brilliant article: How long to wait between the first and the second date.
6. When should you kiss?
It’s another super popular question. First of all your first kiss has to float out logically. It should be romantic, because you will both remember it. So, don’t spoil it.
Here is a nice article for you: Romantic first kiss ideas.
Averagely it happens on your second date when you know each other and think that this relationship may grow in something bigger.
7. What to do and NOT to do?
The answer is rather simple: don’t do stupid things. If you like each other and already know each other a little bit, just don’t do the things that will frustrate him/her.
I recommend checking the article: 15 Relationships Rules. Essential Dos and Don’ts.
Make sure not to lie, be understanding, invest your efforts and you should be good.
8. When should you get married?
According to Statista the average time between the first date and marriage that has the smallest percent of divorces is 1.5 years. It may vary between 1 and 2 years. You should get to know each other pretty well, but at the same time don’t delay the natural flow of things.
Wrap Up
These were the most common FAQs about modern dating and relationships. As it was mentioned before some answers may not work for some cases. But these are the data driven tips, so take them into the account. Good luck.