I've just recently found out that my husband is cheating on me, it's been 10 years now, as they are together, and he's only been with me for 4 years. He met her at work and twisted.
Since she is a wealthy woman and my husband, it turns out, I got attached to her money. But they have no children with her. And we have a common baby was born. He told me that all this is temporary, that he needs it, like a goldfish because of work and uses it. She does not know about me and the child, he tried to hide everything well. I love my husband, but I can not accept this for the sake of money. I think what to do, since he set a condition that if I leave, he will take away the baby from me. I know that this will work for him (he is cunning in these matters) and if he does not take it, he said: "forget that I am a father, I will not continue to help you because of the baby. Or bear with me and grow a child or go away forever. " Has threatened, that all will make, if she learns about me ..
My parents do not know anything about this (my mother is elderly, I do not want to upset her, she will say that you need to abandon him), but I love him and feel sorry for the child, that I will tell him when he asks about his father. At the sight of my husband, I constantly imagine how and what they do, and I already get sick of it. But I restrain myself. Is it worthwhile to live like this, to leave or do you still have to endure and fight for the family?