FALSE BELIEF: EXPRESSING FEELINGS IS SIGN OF WEAKNESS

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"Nature works with enormous waste: only in the
human brain there are six hundred billion cells. What does it matter, then, a hidden sensation, an unconscious emotion? Sometimes it seems to me that it does not matter much. And others I think everything depends on that. "
Sandor Marai (1900 - 1989)
Hungarian journalist and novelist.


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Many people with whom I have met in this paradoxical path of life, maintain that "we must" annul the feelings. They came to say: "think with the brain and not with the heart".
It is a matter of "coherence". It is necessary to "think, feel and act towards the same sense".
Anyway, the idea that many people are confused, pretending to "rationalize feelings" is clear.
Love is configured in the capacity to be located in a deep inner look with oneself. It is Love that drives it through paths of liberation. It is the tool with which you will overcome all fear. Love begins with you As he accepts Himself, in those parts that he does not accept of himself, he becomes more whole, more integral, indivisible. He will begin to have more harmony, he will put aside his masks; will give less importance to their "roles", which are disguises or mechanisms of their ego and will begin to emerge their authentic "Being", where their deep love and inner wisdom expand and shine, generating in you a human being with intense charisma and light.
Most people are wrong to believe that "Love is a deep feeling". Love is a decision. "Love" is ACTION. If you decide to express your feelings with the deepest of your heart, the "cowardice" will die in you and the "Courage" will be born. You will become a powerful human being.
If you decide to grow in LOVE, your heart will be trained to manifest the most sublime emotions. You become In powerful, when you express your feelings, and if you do not believe in this, I challenge you to prove it today! One of the versions of the origin of the word "Love"; which is said to be a false etymology - although personally it has a powerful meaning in the veracity of its concept - comes from a composition of the Greek "A" which means "Sin" and the Latin "Mortem", whose meaning is "Death". Is To say, "Love" is "Life." Another version of its etymology is that word "Love" is composed of the Latin voice "A" which is translated as "From or From" and "Mori", whose connotation is "Die". That is to say, its interpretation is "From Death".

To have the wonderful experience of taking transcendent steps in your own way of life, you must URGENTLY leave
to die everything that does not make it evolve as a human being. He must let all those things die that are taking away the desire to be alive, like the frustration of not moving forward, of not feeling that there is growth; the unwillingness to do what he loves; the hard effort that means to do what does not "vibrate with you", that which is killing it little by little, extinguishing the inner fire and breath of lifetime; and in this sense, being a deadpan person, invalid to express your most beautiful, sweetest and uplifting emotions, life will end up charging you, in some way. Believe me "Death" itself is one of the fundamental principles of the nature of all things. When the seed dies, a plant is born. When the day dies, night is born. When the night dies, the day is born. It is important that you consider, that "Death" It is the "very principle of life". When a negative thought dies in you, a positive thought is born. When an involutive emotion dies in you, a transcendent feeling is born. When your lethargy, your nonsense, dies in you, the "action" and the sweet taste of your life are born. That is why a "Virtuous Being" develops his knowledge in "Love". When you express yourself in love, put "Order". All their actions begin to expand their own light; start to give you unique shine to its own existence, also benefiting others.

The "Love" is the tool with which you will achieve absolutely everything that is proposed, because it is an "attractive energy".

Express your most constructive emotions. I assure you that you have POWER, and your environment and the world will benefit from your delivery more precious, the "living love". I say, in many occasions, that "it is not the same to be an Idiot, than to be a Stupid", referring to the origins of these words that today are very hard, controversial and that come to hurt the hearts of those people who feel emotionally condemned to hear them.

The root of the word "Idiot" comes from the Greek language "Idios", whose connotation is "isolated" or "proper". Was a
concept with which the person was called who only had an interest in their own affairs and an exaggerated indifference About the others.
When you open up to others and prepare to deliver the best of yourself, you will be activating the strength of "service."You can exercise the ability to give, to be sensitive, to be open to a full heart. Being an "idiot" is not realizing that the Indifference is a symptom of blindness of the heart. Opening your eyes to life, is opening the doors to the greatness that is in your hand that he gives and in his other hand, that he receives. The term "Stupid" comes from the Latin "Stupidus", whose original meaning or Primitive is "Surprised", "Amazed". The interesting thing is that, both "Stupid" and "Super", have the same root etymology in the verb "Stupere", which can be translated as "Stupor" and connotes "Amazed" or "Surprised". It is even more surprising, when we realize that "Estupendo" is considered in our current language as a positive concept, and that the word "Stupid" has been misrepresented, forming part of the repertoire of habitual insults in some heated discussions.

The German scientist Albert Einstein said:


"There are two infinite things: the Universe and human stupidity." Maybe he did not refer disparagingly and was claiming that the universe and human awe have no finitude.
Well, the matter is that if you want a life full of new things in which you can experience sensations and faculties often asleep, such as joy, romanticism, the power to be creative and to be helpful; You must take the Choice to open your heart and "be surprised" at every detail you experience. It will be time for "your life to be great" and that "being stupid" is just a way of calling him to his great astonishment for life itself. Stop being an Idiot, that is, an egoist who only thinks about his personal interests, to start sharing with the world.

It's good to be "stupid", to have stupor, amazement; because that person who has not been surprised by the beauty of the simple and everyday things, is a dead person.

Ask yourself the following questions:

  • What is love for me ?, How do I define it?
  • How do I show my love to others?
  • How do I express love towards myself?
  • In the daily life, do I spend more time in love or more time in anger and frustration?
  • What are my most recurrent feelings?
  • I complain frequently?
  • Am I a grateful person?
  • In general, do I appreciate everything I receive or what happens to me?
  • I appreciate the beauty in things simple?
  • When I'm fine, do people tell me it's kind of weird?
  • Hug those I love?
  • Do I say "I love you" or "I love you" frequently?
  • When I look in the mirror, do I feel good with myself?


Recommended Bible passages

Proverbs 8:17
1 Corinthians 13
Galatians 5:22
1 John 4:18



"You are powerful when you take the
decision to love and expresses their
constructive feelings ".



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God has given us the feelings so that we can express what we feel. Sometimes we feel sad, happy, satisfied, afraid, angry, and so on.
God knows our feelings. Psalm 139: 1-4, says that God knows all of us. There is nothing that is hidden from Him. Therefore, He knows our feelings. The feelings were made by Him and He has given us as a gift for our own personality. Feelings just like skills are not
the same for all, nor can they be manifested in the same time as other people. Each person is an individual being, with different abilities and feelings.

God understands how we feel because He also feels. Jesus expressed his feelings on different occasions.
! Matthew 12: 12-13: when he saw the merchants in the temple he became angry a lot and threw them out of there.
! Matthew 9:36: when he saw people who did not have God in their hearts,
He felt a lot of sadness and compassion.
! Matthew 26: 37, 38: When he was about to die he had many feelings. He
worried about his mother, he felt very lonely and abandoned, he felt the
physical pain and emotional pain.

Our feelings must be expressed with sincerity, we can not condition our ability to love, this is a great truth @darlenys01.

The feelings are a gift from God. Many people are afraid of their feelings. Sometimes we do not even know what we feel because we have heard that we should not trust feelings. But God made us with feelings and Jesus Christ showed feelings during his life here on Earth. So we must learn how to handle feelings and how to enjoy them.

show our feelings and emotions for our loved ones is wonderful, I think it is a blessing that has given us the creator.

My feelings are a gift from God. Thank you for remembering @ darlenys01...

Love is configured in the capacity to be located in a deep internal aspect with oneself. It is love that takes him through the paths of liberation. It is the tool with which you will overcome all fear. Love begins with you As you accept yourself, in those parts that do not accept yourself, it becomes more complete, more integral, indivisible. It will begin to have more harmony, it will leave aside its masks; They will give less importance to their "roles", which are disguises or mechanisms of their ego and will begin to emerge their authentic "Being", where their deep love and inner wisdom expand and shine, generating in you a human being with an intense charisma.

Breaking with that false belief, that expressing feelings is a sign of weakness.
Interesting message Love is the expression of feelings, moves the heart of the hardest and most arrogant. Blessings of the apostle.