How to be more attractive in a relationship. The Dont's

in self-help •  7 years ago  (edited)

First of all, what is attractiveness? In this context, attractiveness is more than beauty, unlike beauty which you can do little or nothing about, attractiveness are those many qualities in a man or a woman which are capable of attracting a partner. It is not required for only those in need of a relationship, but also by those in a relationship.

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I will then begin first with the things you shouldn't do while trying to be attractive.

Don't do these....

  1. Don't go into a relationship desperate: Permit me to say, desperate people don't think straight. If you are desperate you tend to make a wrong decision, most times the person knows you are desperate and so builds on that. Its only going to be a relationship where one partner takes advantage of the other, where only one person does.

  2. Don't pretend: Because you need to keep a man you begin to laugh the way you never do, wear stuffs you have never worn. Well, you are operating far outside of your zone, and you can't take this attitude to a long standing relationship. My advice, be your real face, if he or she doesn't like you that way it means he will like you. Move on to somewhere else were you will be loved.

  3. Don't Hustle:Some people when they approach a lady, in a bid to keep her, they begin to say words like "one of my plans this year is to get married", "I'm in need of a wife go marry", well when you do this, you are in for trouble. Almost any girl with a wrong attitude will immediately seat up and begin pretending. If you wish to see a girl at her natural attitude, don't hustle. And so you called in the morning, afternoon, and night and repeat the cycle, only to show the lady how better you are. Some ladies will have a total and wring interpretation for this, they could begin go think you are doing this because there is something you want. Dont hustle.

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  1. Don't go Naked:Attractiveness is not in exposing the body. If you are willing to attract men that will stay and be serious with you, exposing your body is not the way. When you expose your body, you only attract whores. Men who are only after your body and will leave you immedietly they see another exposed skin. My advice, have ya cloths on.

For the Do's I was intending to write them all here, but this place seems filled with too many letters already. So I will make it in my second post. Stay in touch.
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