Stop "consuming" sex to take (really) time to enjoy. This is the creed of "slow sex". The time that confinement offers us is perhaps the time to review our habits in bed?
In a society where everything pushes us to accelerate, a counter-trend emerges and invites to "slow". In other words, slow down to get back to basics. The move comes in the diet, with supporters of the Slow food , but also in beauty , with Slow Cosmeti as an eco-responsible approach. In the intimate sphere also the singers of slowness can claim to be of a "current": "Slow sex". What is it exactly ? How to put it into practice? Our advices.
The Joys of Slow Sex
You have no doubt heard of slow food , this movement which advocates "good, clean and fair" food as opposed to fast food. Here is "slow sex", new avatar of "slow attitude". Conceptualized in 2002 by the Italian Alberto Vitale, author of the Clock of slowness , slow sex advocates "erotic deceleration". Understand: the art of taking your time during intercourse. Where society values the race for performance, at work and in bed, the followers of slow sex recommend slowing down during romantic relationships to (really) get off.
Slow sex: slower is better?
For your ears, slow sex will probably sound wrong. You will tell yourself that this is more of a fad than a philosophy. Think again ! In the United States, the matter is taken so seriously that a center has been established in California to train novices to preach its principles.
Without going so far as to become a "slow sex coach", the slow sex movement poses real questions: Should we rethink our way of seeing the sexual act and especially of practicing it? Are we too inclined to rush and favor the end (enjoy) rather than the means?
"Taking your time is always beneficial for the couple because it allows you to gradually increase the excitement", confirms Joëlle Mignot, clinical psychologist sexologist, editor in chief of the review "Human Sexualities". This promotes the discovery of the other's body, of sensoriality. Taking your time also means paying special attention to the other. "If you take your time, are we necessarily slower? "If everything is slow it can quickly become boring, object the sexologist. Sex is not only slowness and speed. The important thing in sexuality is to vary the rhythms and practices" without locking oneself in a yoke.
Finally, slow sex is perhaps more an awareness than a real sexual revolution.
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