I am not a feminist or mgtow or any other retard ideology
I am a young man in America that is tired of spending so much time bantering, which is fun, until you realize you're still alone jacking off to porn. Meeting people these days can be extremely difficult, coupled with the perhaps some social cues/skills not being picked up on. I keep finding myself frustrated every time I've either spent time, energy and effort into meeting new people to have sex with/be romantic with and/or end of having sex with other people equally sexually frustrated in which both of us find neither of us attractive (which has worked for me in the past).
Online dating that's free sucks and I'm too broke to pay for decent sites to meet people, which in my experience is full of fags and webcam shows soliciting you. Also asking around only makes you out to look too thirsty, can work, but not always. Many times when I do simply ask around and there are some maybe's that flake, it inevitably end up with me feeling depressed after 50 - 100+ "no's" or being ignored or whatever the response is that isn't a green light (which is completely fine because I don't want sex with someone who really doesn't want to have sex with me). A lot of my time I simply keep to myself, I love my alone time, being single is something I enjoy partly because I'm used to it but because I just don't see myself in a serious relationship. So when I do decide to make it a priority to "get sum" it's like being an introvert at a extroverted party, I don't always know all the in's and out's of certain social cues I'm unfamiliar with that others are.
That's about it!
Join a hobby group or club that involves things you feel passionate about. I met my husband at a Buddhist group gathering, he was so much fun arguing about the metaphysical properties of zero, I asked him out for a date.
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Nice! Yea I know it's ultimately my responsibility for making it important to meet people "consistently" because after re-reading my post this afternoon (3pm EST US) I noticed that's something I can change, therefore changing my results. "doing the same thing, expecting different results is insane" -said some famous intellectual
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Yes, you are right, you can change. What's so cool is we are always changing, which is the nature of phenomena. I've never really been alone, I've always had to take care of family, I crave being alone. Thank goodness my husband understands this and leaves me alone when I'm holding a paint brush.
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:) sweet!
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Or perhaps, America is not where your woman of destiny is. Try travelling somewhere out of your country. Asia perhaps.
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Yeah I've thought about that, in fact there are several buddies have mentioned I want a woman from over seas lol.
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Following you! +upvote
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