Sexual appetite

My only goal this year is to recognise and accept who I’m, and be absolutely vocal about it. No layers, no charades nothing.
Physical intimacy is very important to me but it’s looked down upon. If men express their sexual desires freely then they’re given different labels, and it’s even harder with women. Rarely you’ll find people giving you the space to talk about it. I’m aware that this post is up on a public platform and anybody can read it, whether it’s my friends, my family or strangers. More the reason for me to talk about it.
In all my relationships, I’ve always felt alone regarding my sexual appetite. And I’ve always oscillated between “Is something wrong with me?” and “I’m who I’m and I won’t apologise for it”. On the spectrum of “no sexual desires” to “a lot of them”, wherever you belong, you’re not wrong. You’re you and I hope you be with someone who’s on the same wavelength as yours and is there for you.
I apologise if these words are not put together nicely, because I’m sick since morning. But I’ve bee feeling better so I thought, why not?
Anyway, we all know that sexual tension between two people causes a lot of problems. So please be vocal about it what you want. See how you two get along by being completely honest. Don’t hide anything just because somebody would judge you or leave you. Because this isn’t about them it’s about you and your whole life. Accept it with grace and you’ll be really happy. Peace ✌🏼