Many famous people have unusual urges which they depend on for stimulation. A lover should discover whether a partner's sexual style is based on shared intimacy or a sign of something aberrant, risky or even dangerous. The desire becomes pathological when striving for a particular scenario or fetish takes precedence over interacting with a mate.
Sexual perversity is usually submerged in New relationship. Once trust has developed or at a point of intense passion, a lover may reveal what he tried to conceal. It then becomes the partner's decision to either go along with the others behavior or refuse and chance a break-up. Sometimes both people enjoy the kinkiness and the newcomer thrills to the experience.
Jack a rugged body builder, was a stand in for a masculine studly star. Jack as a small child, when is working mother left him alone, he would comfort himself by playing with her clothes, mostly panties that she had recently worn. During his teens, he frequently masturbated with black silk panties in his hand and still becomes excited by the smell and touch of female underwear, with or without the female body.
As Jack matured, he realized he was missing the deeper gratification that comes from sharing love with a special, caring person. Jack found a struggling actress looking for a place to live and offered her bed and board in exchange for physical intimacy.
After a few months, his-live-in lady walked out saying she was through playing second fiddle to his fetish and complaining that she felt reduced to a non essential object, only incidental to his first choice of arousal. The split up was triggered when she returned unexpectedly and found him wearing her underpants.
He realized the panties pulled him into his past and wanted to change for a better future. He opted for learning self-hypnosis, and after six sessions, he stopped using women's underwear during sex, and his girlfriend moved back in. Now, he uses panties only as a good-luck charm
He laughed and said he wears a black lace bikini under his tights when he's performing in action films and when he competes in body-building tournaments. "he said I have never lost a competition except when I forget to put my little panties on".
Now everything finally worked out with his partner as well. She is now willing to accept his fetish as long as she comes first in his affections....😂 lol