Single motherhood - Kaos1973

in singlemother •  7 years ago 

Single motherhood is the single biggest determining factor toward childhood behavioural issues. Compounded with the welfare state is the gash in the bow that may well sink the Titanic.

Children especially boys learn the mastery of their emotions from their fathers. An absent father is far worse than a low quality present one.

The general principal of this trend is that single mothers do not have the physical strength to deal with adolescent boys who crave boundaries and strong leadership. It then degenerates into a game of bluff, emotional blackmail and threats in order to obtain compliance from the boy. This sets up an adversarial relationship between the single mother and the son especially when the mother blames the absent father for the shortcomings. The mother was either a bad judge of character to sleep with and have a relationship and child with such a poor person OR she is a liar. Neither option paints her is a good light.

In relation to daughters: When the father is absent the pheromones transmitted by the father are no longer there and this sets off the biological trigger which evolved over many thousands of years. A trigger that in prehistorical times meant that the father was dead or missing and therefore the family was in trouble. This speeds up the sexual maturation of the daughters in order to reproduce more people (males in particular) to deal with the threat. In the modern world this early sexual maturation manifests itself as childhood hypersexualisation and promiscuity.

When single mothers refuse to accept any responsibility for their predicament and yet seek to dictate moral superiority to a growing child, the results are almost always bad.

But we won't talk about these issues because the welfare state IS the single mother state. Boys are defective and girls and single mothers have no moral agency in their life choice. Governments NEED the massive voting power of the single mother welfare bloc in order to get elected. What they fail to grasp is that this voting bloc is completely insatiable, is bankrupting the country (financially and morally), and will not allow the money drain to stop. They will parasitically drain every last drop of cash from the system and will electorally destroy any politician that attempts to challenge this beast.

People will scream in outrage to this post because 'we can't question the motives of victims'. A single mother IS a victim - no matter the circumstances. However to suggest that a single mother has NO moral or intellectual responsibility is to suggest that are less than human. That they are just a face with no soul, no free will and therefore no accountability. And then suggest that the single father does and MUST be dragged through the Star Chamber that is the family law court to be butchered and served cold to the lawyers and aggrieved mothers is a travesty that boys and men see as an existential threat to their lives.

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