Social disorder is one of the most tiring things to do

With age, more and more do not know how to socialize, many years of work experience did not help, the holidays just want to be familiar with the people together, social circles are always those who learn the era of friends, think of or not Familiar greetings on a burst of fatigue, I always thought I was older, the more withdrawn?

But this turned out to be not the only thing that happened to me. Last week's boudoir party. A friend just returned from England, in an unbelievable eye, said: "When I attended a rooftop party on the ground, I suddenly felt like I was in outer space I totally do not know how to blend in with strangers, I used to be a flower butterfly at the level of lord.

When I heard her vivid description, I could not help but laugh and looked at her and said, "Please, I've discovered this issue for a long time. Is it really because we are too far away from youth?" They exchanged ideas for one another, Found that we all have these symptoms.

#1
In the face of the pursuit, really overwhelmed

Although it has not deteriorated to the point that the opposite sex is interesting to you but does not feel it, you really do not know how to be good when you receive the pursuit signal from your counterpart. But just a few years ago, if the other side is also a bit mean, do not send a distress SMS inquiry sister advice, you can naturally and generously to each other's date, and now if the other party said: "Do you want to eat together after get off work?" Like a little girl at the age of 18, I would like to ask a friend's opinion first and then. In short, the older and the less gutsy.

#2
Do not know how to chat with strangers

Anyone who celebrates birthday party or socializing with clients will inevitably meet with some people who meet for the first time, but what is strange is that it was obviously natural to say "Hi I am XXX," but the A sentence is always very unnatural, plus an awkward stiff smile on his face piled up, always have to start chatting topics to the other side, to be relieved to pick up.

#3
Avoid eye contact

Every time at a party or party occasion, always only want a person to enjoy quiet wine, with the next two or three sisters to chat well, always worried about strangers to the eye, because the case of the eye Next, nine out of ten will come from me, then open a period of stressful conversation, with older, it is really lack of interest in chatting with unfamiliar people.

#4
Do not like to go to many places

Memories of 20 early, most like the lively scene, the more the more excited, often Friday night and her boyfriend and friends to the party carnival, listening to the deafening music, dancing with the beat, as if that work week feeling of exhaustion Disappear in that moment But now, let's not go to nightclubs, just go to the familiar pub for drinks. Holiday is to avoid the largest number of downtown people in Taipei, prefer to watch the popular movie in the vicinity of the small cinema, sometimes holding her boyfriend's hand, could not help but laughed at each other: "We are really old."

#5
Others begin to describe you quietly

Every time you meet with friends, you are always sitting quietly, quietly listening to them chatting content, focus on food in their hands, people who are unfamiliar with you always could not help but say: "You seem very quiet." A good sisters who know you for the rest of your life will not help but laugh a few words: "Please, her words are more than anyone else, how quiet will be equated with her." But you know yourself very clearly because there are unfamiliar people , Always a little uncomfortable, chatting with them a pass, it is better to concentrate on food.

#6
Do not talk on the phone when you can send messages

At one time, talking on the phone was really tiring for you. In the past, when you were always on the telephone bill every month, you broke up with your parents. Now when you talk about the last time you talked on the phone, what time was it? It seems that even think can not remember. You always secretly grateful line, wechat instant messaging software invention, pass a pattern can express feelings, it is too convenient for you.