Sometimes people think they know the signs to look for (like poor boundaries, negging, etc) but when it's framed in a spiritual context, a context we think is safe because it's very personal a lot of the time, they let their guard down.

Most recently, I've noticed that myself and others were looking for people to trust in the magickal communities so we'd ignore red flags for the sake of friendship. It ended up not being worth it in the end.

Thank you for the kind words! I'll try to continue to post quality content :)