Destiny isn't real, in and of itself, it's miles just one thing in play, in the puzzle of life. Destiny means if you throw something in the sea, it would definitely reach the shore.
Think about it, lord ram become destined to grow to be king from the very day he turned into born, but on the day of his coronation, which become predicted by means of the astrologers, what took place? His destiny for that day grew to become out to be some thing else altogether, and the astrologers were proven incorrect. So the timing turned into no longer proper and he became exiled to the forest for 14 years, otherwise what the astrologers predicted would have actually transpired.
So destiny is just one part of the puzzle, there is also time, space, karma, effort, etc., which all come into play when it comes to the unfolding of events in one’s life.