Hey, hope things will sort out for you. Sounds like you had a stressful time. Glad to hear that things are working better for you at the time.

From my own experience. A wedding should be a nice thing. If you have to use more money or time than you can afford, maybe it's best to downsize. Remember that people come to celebrate you and your partner. It shouldn't have to be a party that ruin you! Good friends and family will accept and understand that!

Take care!