My First Bad Experience with Steemit

in steemit •  8 years ago 

The only thing stronger than my desire to see these ridiculous accusations disappear is my desire to defend myself and tell whoever is interested the real truth.

Apparently there is a man in Peru who is insanely jealous that I was interviewed with @dollarvigilante. This man is claiming that I blew off an appointment to be interviewed by him for a TV audience consisting of millions of viewers.

This man is @fyrstikken and he is a liar.

I never made an appointment with him. I’ve confronted him and asked him to provide proof that this appointment even existed.

He has yet to provide the proof because it does not exist.

The first time I’ve ever communicated with this man was on steemit.chat when I provided a link for one of my posts featuring a future trip to Peru on the post-promotion chat room. He contacted me and said he wanted to meet me. That was it. He said it “would be great to have two steemit users meet in person”. Never once did he EVER inform me that he had planned to hire a camera crew to accompany this meeting. He never even mentioned interviewing me, let alone planning on airing this “interview” on a television station in Peru.

Please, let’s look at the logic of this. To my knowledge at this point there was a man in Peru who wanted to meet me. He knew I would be traveling alone. I’d never spoken to him or knew anything about him until this first time he’d reached out to me. I never gave him the specific dates that I would be in Lima. How could there be an “appointment” if he never knew when for sure I would be in town? He also claims to have spoiled his reputation for having to reserve 4 tables at a swanky restaurant… once again, I never told him for sure when I would be in Lima, let alone give him a specific time of day. For him to be able to make a reservation is just preposterous.

Instead I made the decision to spend my time in Lima meeting with a young woman working with the children in Huaycan Peru because I wanted to shed a light on the hard work she and the volunteers do there. If you'd like to learn more about her Light and Leadership Initiative check it out here! All proceeds are donated to their efforts of furthering the education of the children, teens and women of Huaycan.

I never reached out to him because there was never a set plan and since I never heard from him again in the two weeks since he first contacted me I figured that we wouldn’t be meeting after all.

He never contacted me again after this first conversation on the steemit.chat post-promotion page until one day last week he decided to make me his next steemit user to target. Rumor has it he has also been a problem for other well known steemit users like @stellabelle and @tuck-fheman. He was so abusive towards @stellabelle that it’s made her seriously consider taking her creative posts to Synereo. I myself am a huge fan of hers and would be sad to see her switch to Synereo due to her experience with this loose cannon.

It wasn’t until after my interview with @dollarvigilante was released that he began his mission to ruin my reputation and even went as far as to tell people that I’m a fake blogger and my blog is a scam. I assure it is not. All of the photos and my writing are completely genuine and original works written specifically for the users of steemit. Don’t believe me? Check them yourself.

I met with @dollarvigilante because I have followed him on YouTube for a long time now and I credit him for educating me about many things regarding the government and how to invest wisely. I was so excited to have been asked by him for an interview- an interview he explicitly explained would be aired on his Anarchast channel on YouTube. I knew who this man was before he approached me and I was able to have a friend of mine accompany me to this interview- which would not have been the case in Peru. I would have been meeting with a complete stranger all by myself in a foreign country- not exactly the smartest way for a woman to travel. I want to thank @dollarvigilante for being an incredible help to me and proving to be a real friend.

I’m in Cape Town right now where wifi is hard to come by so I was unaware of this libelous post until today. I was able to read the comments and saw how he defended me and I’m very thankful for that.

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(I've been a bit busy climbing mountains lately)

Don’t mistake my silence as a sign of guilt

I really was hoping that the recent experience in that chat room would be the end of this mess, I figured he’d get it all off his chest and move on. I guess I was wrong, he decided to spread the lies further and see if he could get paid for it. Which apparently ruining others reputations is a phenomenal way to make money on this site. Too bad I have a conscious and wouldn’t be able to actively ruin people’s reputations, get paid for it AND be able to sleep at night.

I’m guessing @fyrstikken was jealous that he didn’t get to use my popularity on this site to further promote his own ambitions. Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s awesome that he has been promoting steemit so well in Peru and I would’ve loved to have helped him do so by meeting with him and doing an interview. But again I was never informed by him of any such plans for a TV interview! Unfortunately for me, since he couldn’t use my popularity for the good of steemit, he’s now using it to make money off of a completely false yet sensationalized story that he has fabricated. He has published libelous statements and has made more than $1000 off of it to boot.

The language he used to completely berate me on the public chat room was nothing short of disgusting behavior. I hope he’s embarrassed by the language he chose to express himself, especially if he’s a “grown man” but I think we all know he’s proven to be a boy in a man’s body. The words he chose repeatedly are incredibly degrading and filled with hate.

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I am incredibly thankful that I did not meet with him.

What if I had and he surprised me with TV cameras and the pressure of it being aired on TV without giving me a chance to prepare myself for an interview and I answered a question in a bad way? How would he have reacted to the fact that I’m not the best on camera? Would he have cussed me out in public? Would he have followed me to my hostel?

The behavior he showed in the chat room proves that he has zero control over his anger and also proved that I was right not to have met with him.

I gotta give him points for creativity though, even if he didn’t meet with me he’d use my name to get paid either way.

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@heiditravels @stellabelle @fyrstikken @dollarvigilante

You didn't have a bad experience with steemit.
You had a bad experience with a person or persons.
This person was who they were long before steemit, just as you are who you are long before steemit.

Steemit didn't make this person who they are, just like it didn't make you who you are. You've all said steemit didn't make you. But we have made you wealthier.

For some reason, the platform strongly rewards attention whoring right now. Probably for the same reason people can't stop looking at a car wreck.
So you get what you earn, not what you deserve.
It's intentionally not fair as per everything @dantheman has said repeatedly.

We like you, but the platform owes you nothing.
If you disagree with this, I have attached the standard form to fill out in the future.

Thanks for listening!
Signed,
Everyone who is tired of seeing this circus continue.

Steemit might not have caused it. If I go to a bar, and someone pees on my shoe, the owner of the bar didn't cause it. But if it happens often enough, it makes me wonder if the owner of bar should be doing something attract a more continent clientele.

@sigmajin
You're missing my point. The point is we ARE the owners. If you're tired of seeing the circus, quit upvoting it. If you want to encourage better clientele, use your power to upvote quality content and do whatever you can to promote the tens of thousands of underrated minnows on this platform who will never ever see the light of day because they're being drowned out by the very few who regularly make the front page. A very few who are now using that platform to bash one another like children instead of acting like adults and using the mute button.

@heiditravels Prior to this post I had assumed that getting involved or even acknowledging it was beneath you. In my heart I was applauding you for taking the high road and just ignoring it. Was kind of shocked to see you even bother to respond. You do put out great content normally. I would like to know more about your mountain climbing.

She was accused of being "guilty" simply for remaining quiet on the matter. She's up against a master troll that capitalizes on others inability to be online 24/7, or have the desire to, to counter his propaganda campaigns against them.

He also has an army of sockpuppets and cronies backing him. It's a tough battle to even consider taking up and I commend her for having the courage to face her false accuser, who will likely continue targeting her for simply standing up to protect her reputation.

Some of us reached our breaking point and decided to stand up to this online tyrant. I hope more of this Community will use their voting power, as you state, to shun these types of individuals until something can be done in the code to help an individual block abusers.

Thanks for that.

Just to be clear here. The only part directed at heidi in my commentary were the parts where I directly used her name. Meaning I don't think she had a bad experience with steemit, just a handful of users. Same with the others making posts saying "steemit = bad, unsafe etc".

I'm horrified by the actions of those users, but the problem isn't steemit.
It's the people upvoting that sort of BS. When you upvote that, you are encouraging both sides to continue.

The rest of my commentary towards her was intended to say "heidi, honestly, none of us in our right minds thought your silence was evidence of guilt.". In fact speaking for myself, I had just assumed she had put him on mute. I was really proud of that. Hence I was shocked to find out, no it was just that she was AFK for a bit.

The rest of my commentary is directed to everyone who upvoted ANY of that mess.

Please consider what message you are sending to everyone, especially new users when you upvote anyone slinging mud at anyone else. Whether you think it's warranted or otherwise.

Is this really what you want the platform to turn into?

So here's the deal. If someone is slinging mud at someone else, hit the downvote button, then the mute button. First time, every time. You bop them on the nose like that enough then they will go sit in the corner and think about it. You're harming their bottom line.

Otherwise, literally everyone is making money from perpetuating a negative cycle and that is money being taken directly from people trying to do right and bring real lasting value.

Think about it.

@tuck-fheman I do applaud you for standing up and taking a stand in general. I'm not trying to diminish that or take away from it. Sometimes there is no right answer. You did what you felt was right. I know you to be a good person with a strong backbone and an excellent sense of right and wrong. I can admire and respect that.

But let's please make this the last time we financially support tit for tat. For the good of the platform. Just downvote it, mute it and walk away. If they have a large number of accounts and supporters legit or otherwise, then that's a sign we need to fix the platform so it rewards the behavior we want to see. To my mind that means reserving our upvotes solely for content that promotes what we really want to see more of.

Upvote the future, not the past.

I completely understand your point @williambanks, I wasn't sure about writing this post, but I'm glad that I did, something about letting him get away without voicing the truth just didn't sit well with me. I certainly don't enjoy these types of conflicts and bringing more light to it is now causing that good ol' Barbra Streisand effect. I will be back to posting about adventures tomorrow.

Thanks @heiditravels !
We've continued the discussion over into tuck's latest blog.
https://steemit.com/censorship/@tuck-fheman/just-downvote-it-mute-it-and-walk-away-is-that-a-reasonable-solution
It's at a more academic and less personal level.
I hope you'll join us!

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@williambanks - well pointed out!
love the butthurt report :D

this seem to keep escalating -
can't believe all the upvotes this "butthurt" is getting
and not just this one specifically ~ but also what started it ...
the whole thread of this rebuttals!

seniors ( referring to those who have long been here) should be models
we follow you because you inspire
but if you all go on like this -

more trash are floating in this abyss
minnows and some other fishes are having a hard time breathing -

Well it seems I wasn't following you before. But that was incredibly well put. So I'm following you now!

@williambanks Thank you <3

The SteemIt community supported and financially rewarded his behaviour.

Exactly :3

and also proved that I was right not to have met with him.

I thought it was not your decision not to meet him but his fault he didn't contacted you again... (Am I missing something?)

@liondani I want you as my lawyer when I have to face similar circumstances. That was the number one most penetrating comment in this whole sordid mess.

Way to cut to the chase, my brother.

...and she edited it to...

I am incredibly thankful that I did not meet with him.

...I guess she is not aware of that the block-chain has already stored/recorded her first original expression...to eternity archives... :)

@liondani
These things mean the same thing. She got a bad vibe, not at the last moment. But she didn't affirmatively disavow the moment she got that vibe either.

This is literally...
Fyrstikken's mind: "She didn't say no, thus it must mean yes".
Heidi's mind: "I didn't say yes, thus he must know I actually meant no, even though I never said it".

Men and women think differently. Fyrstikken thought he had a date basically set in stone. Heidi thought she needed to RSVP for that date to be confirmed, otherwise it would be a presumptive decline.

Guys, anything other than an explicit yes is actually a no.
Gals, men are not psychic. If there is any chance your intent may not be clear, please be explicit. Men won't hate you for turning them down, but they will be upset if you don't make it clear that the invitation is not being accepted.

Helpful video tutorial on the subject...

Here's the part of her post I found most interesting and makes me baffled at how he can claim that he thought she had agreed or that he even actually set something up. I continue to have serious doubts about his entire version of the events ...

"Please, let’s look at the logic of this. To my knowledge at this point there was a man in Peru who wanted to meet me. He knew I would be traveling alone. I’d never spoken to him or knew anything about him until this first time he’d reached out to me. I never gave him the specific dates that I would be in Lima. How could there be an “appointment” if he never knew when for sure I would be in town? He also claims to have spoiled his reputation for having to reserve 4 tables at a swanky restaurant… once again, I never told him for sure when I would be in Lima, let alone give him a specific time of day. For him to be able to make a reservation is just preposterous."

The drama continues

I am @fyrstikken - and I have been accused by this travel-blogger of being a liar - Well, I am not:

I am glad you "Prayed for me" - It inspired me to seek the truth and provide a screenshot from Rocket Chat Postpromotion Moderated 28th of July 2016.

Praise Be!

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

"Sounds like a great idea" is not a confirmation. Did she ever confirm the time and place?

Edit: What you have proven is that you blew up at @heiditravels over your own misunderstanding of a non-committal reply. An appointment includes a time and date and confirmation of those things. This is fairly basic stuff for someone who organizes things with people. If you don't get those things, you don't have an arrangement. How would she even know when and where to turn up?

so based on "sounds like a great idea" you made a breakfast reservation on a specific time and date and also hired a TV crew?

@fyrstikken Did she confirm a time and place?

@sigmajin The log is longer then the screenshot, go and check the rest yourself please.

On booking the restaurant, yes. I assumed she would send me a message on rocket-chat when she arrived, I was online all the time - she went dark. Yes I booked a reservation to make sure I had a great location available for her in the safest environment in Lima.

The point of the Interview was to promote the Steemit-Platform, http://steemit.com.pe and if you know anything about making a segment for Television you should know that freelancers, unless we own our own equipment, have to rent equipment from the studios who have them, in advance to be sure to have the RED Epic cameras, lenses, microphones and operators on stand-by. Or else I would risk that another production-crew would have the equipment on the dates I required them.

We don´t produce Television with cellphone-cameras you know, and since I am a freelancer I have to book the equipment for when we need it in advance. Should be no mystery how this works, stop acting so shocked.

"sounds like a great idea" - The non-committal response hot women give random dudes on the internet who ask them to hook up in a foreign country they are visiting to end the conversation nicely.

AFAICT according to the chat log, she never said another word to him after that response and never indicated anything before that comment that could possibly be misconstrued as an agreement to do anything with this person. This is all on him. Bad judgement once again on his part and he's once again passing the blame onto someone else.

Like I said before. At least Heidi should feel happy he didn't threaten (or actually) hire a killer to knife her to death like when he threatened to kill the Blackcoin Dev (Chat Log: http://pastebin.com/CiqGSfXD) over fyrstikken's own exchanges (CryptoRush) incompetence, lack of due diligence, delayed response and horrible implementation of code that ended up fleecing (according to reports) between 950BTC and 2500LTC belonging to their Customers.

smh

Please send me some popcorn :-D

The manipulation.... I'm gonna have to get me some popcorn right now! :o

Stop wasting popcorn already!

This Steemit drama is unreal. But your Gif made it slightly better!

The Stig : Give me some popcorn

Thank god this post wasn't another travel blog, eh?

indeed, for the love of Dog it was not.

Can i have some popcorn?

I'll say this -- exactly one of the following two statements is true:

  1. Heidi is outright lying in this post about making a commitment to meet up

or

  1. The whales and other powers that be need to seriously rethink the support they give to Fyrstikken.

Well, considering fyrstikken has lied about 2 people, who do you believe now?

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Personally, I've seen things in chat that make me skeptical about fyrsts story in this specific instance and his backstory generally. However, it is not my place to judge.

To be completely rational and impartial about it, we have 2 people with no reason to lie (at least none that makes sense to me), so the judgment of credibility is very subjective. That said, the burden of proof should fall on fyrst. Heidi obviously cannot prove a negative.

The point of the above post was that, if Heidi is telling the truth, that changes the equation very much. Because there's a big difference between him overreacting to her flaking on their appointment, and him making up an appointment out of thin air, then overreacting to her flaking on the made up appointment.

The second situation, if true, speaks to a certain level of psychological instability that gives me pause, especially when hes attempting to entice people to meet him in a foriegn country.

If you knew what I know, you wouldn't even question the veracity of her story. I think people have forgotton my introduction post, "I am an information addict."

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Truth be told, i think by the time i came to steemit you were already just doing SA posts. I just went back and read your intro post and your early ones and they were really good. I was much more impressed than I expected to be.

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

2 people with no reason to lie (at least none that makes sense to me)

Sociopaths rely on the fact that normal people are not so brazen about lying. Most people wouldn't contemplate lying so brazenly and casually, so they don't imagine others doing the same. This benefit of the doubt is what allows sociopaths to be superficially charming, when you don't care about the non-immediate consequences of what you're saying, you can impress people much more easily.

"They have no reason to lie" is faulty thinking when you're dealing with someone you don't know quite well whom you can trust implicitly. Anyone else who makes accusations, you should expect evidence. Benefit of the doubt should not extend to impugning others.

As i said immediately after the sentence, the burden of proof is on fyrst. Because it would be unreasonable to ask heidi to prove a negative.

The sociopath thing could apply to either one. Im not saying either one is or isnt, but its he said she said, and I don't know him or her.

I wish I did not upvote his OP now. Maybe I will go and remove it, if it is not too late...

Thanks for clearing this up. <3

I think what's most important in this issue are two points:

  • @fyrstikken has no proof of an actual approved appointment, with date, time and everything.
  • @fyrstikken can be seen using language that's clearly not the language one should use in a situation like this. Sorry fyrstikken, but calling someone a cunt whore is just not going to solve the problem. It's making your case worse though. Good luck winning my respect back.

Man that dude is a loose cannon, a real man would NEVER use that sort of language with a lady in any discussion public or private, its just so wrong. I think you made the right decision about your safety.

exactly. Welcome to our world, where women who are honest, and some of whom have the highest reputation in Steemit are lumped into a "cunt" pile. Fun, isn't it?

I am sorry that anyone would be treated in this way but I realise in the anonymous world of the keyboard warrior that some people drop their normal filters. I love Steemit and the community that is forming. It's a shame, every village has an wise elder , peacemaker , old grump and an idiot. I believe people nominate themselves for the roles.

Don't pay him any mind, clearly he's a psychotic loser who has some serious issues...

Best thing to do is to ignore him and all extensions of his negativity.

That, and I mean, I don't enjoy bashing people.. especially appearance-wise.. but..

He's the typical "neckbeard" loser, troll.. Literally..
Just look at him.. Disgusting.

Keep your head up and fuck what he claims. Probably just mad that yet ANOTHER beautiful, successful woman wanted nothing to do with him..
Don't let the negativity get to you. We love you here on steemit and we love to watch you travel and enjoy yourself! He's simply a misogynistic sack of garbage and it's only showing more and more. Probably salty that his posts aren't nearly as valuable as yours (most likely because half the time, he's full of shit and the other half the time, he's talking about useless garbage or being narcissistic where narcissism would honestly be pathetic as he is toxic and nowhere close to good looking/well behaved and respectful).

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

@fyrstikken: "She agreed to a TV-Interview to promote Steemit when she came to Perú."
@heiditravels: "I never made an appointment with him. "
Two opposite tales, which to believe?

Edit: Fair enough, I do agree with my replies. @fyrstikken made the first accusation, so it's up to him to prove anything. So I'll consider @heiditravels innocent until then.

Innocent until proven guilty.

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Burden of proof is on the accuser.

I find the fact that the Steemit community brought his posts to the front page and rewarded them more offensive than @fyrstikken's behaviour itself.

Exactly!!!

Again it easnt the steemit community but a subsection of the community who i assure you always upvote his content no matter what it is. Ge is leveraging his peergroup to get upvotes and there is nothing wrong with that. His actions might not makr you happy but he has figured out how to use a group of friends to give him more power on here. Isnt that what steem is about though?

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

they're not necessarily mutually exclusive. At least not the specific statements above.

Fyrst says
: we should meet up when youre in peru you can be on my show.

heidi says something non comittal or maybe positive like "sure ill give you a call"

then heidi mentions she was in peru (and never called). Now fyrst is upset becasue he realizes hes been blown off.

Fyrst gets pissed then embellishes a story about a camera crew to make himself look more like an aggrieved party.

I've never bought the camera crew story to begin with. Because he does a radio show, right? I mean he already has the crew there, and allegedly an audience of 200, 000 and he's enough of a performer/talker to do a show solo. Does he really send them home or does he make an actual show by himself (talking trash on heidi for not showing up).

All that said, from this perspective, it sounds super creepy.

What I'm thinking is ...
was this "chatroom" conversation with fyrstikken or with tuck-fheman with an alias of fyrstikken?

It's precisely the same conversation as @fyrstikken admitted to "EXPLOD[ing] at her" in his post.

Then, I suppose fyrstikken (in my opinion) is on the same level of morality as nkdk.
I cannot control the powerful, so even though they are up to no good I can only hope capitalism will help bring some correction. Thanks demotruk for making that clear.

Seriously?

"Did I flag you?" ~ No, you'r cool. @r4ken has been flagging a lot of people with low account value. Apparently he is pissed at dan and ned over some censorship of his account.
@tuck-fheman, after miss-judging you like that I have checked out your posts and found a new respect for you. 😉

Cool. :)

Seeing as how you flagged that comment despite the fact it was just a question, @demotruck(thank you) already showed me the truth, and I acknowledged..... I'm not sure what else one would want me to do to get my reputation back. I could just become another person of many talking about how Steem dumps unprivileged users to the curb. Or I could recognize that r4ken is most likely the true flagger.

Did I flag you? I don't see that I did. But I'm curious because for some reason I have you muted, which usually means that someone flagged me. ;)

Edit : oh you're not muted, it's because someone flagged you here. my mistake.

BTW, Why am I the only one upvoting @demotruk's comment; But, 5 votes exist on my comment?

Well if it makes you feel any better... My account here was hacked and I lost over 10,000 SBD

when were you hacked?

That sucks!! Can't stand hackers, I've lost over 15 thousand USD this year due to hacks.

Hackers are the worst!!

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

I'm sorry that you had to defend yourself in the first place.

I suspected this was exactly what happened and was surprised and annoyed at how much support he got. These kinds of accusation posts should not be so highly rewarded.

If somebody wants to make a post more visible in order to raise awareness (if it is steemit related that is), they can promote that post, but people should be discouraged from rewarding it.

His post was not even worth promoting. Because whatever happened it was between you and him. It was nobody elses business that you did not agree to meet him or even if you had and couldn't.

I'm disgusted at not just him but everyone who rewards that behaviour!

I was really surprised at the support he got.

Even from usually solid whales like smooth (who upvoted his nonapology apology) who seem to know better.

@heiditravels ENVY!!! Serious, you are living the life!
Hey, you're cute too.
If you're single, and would like a man thing to cater to your every wish, or do my damnest to try, lets meet.
PM me anytime on chat.

Well gotta give you one thing. You are shameless. ;P

I can understand your anger @heiditravels. I follow you for a few months now and I believe that you are not the liar. People are hungry for money and they would do everything for that. They dont care about others. Keep going and ignore people like that. Enjoy cape town.

Welcome to my country heiditravels. Maybe you can educate people here on steemit on our diverse culture and languages as they would rather listen to a fellow American. I know how you feel as it seems like this platform is filled with negative people running others to the ground.

You don't have to meet anyone you don't want to. What they do or don't do on their end on the basis of some personally perceived arrangement is their business. It is best to just rise above this sort of drama as you are doing. All the best.

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Thank you! I am still trying to wrap my head around the fact that this is even a "controversy." What's next, shaming someone for failing to attend their local steemit meetup?

Don't assume bad intentions over neglect and misunderstanding.

To me this sounds a bit like some miscommunication and misunderstandings that has since escalated. When it comes to miscommunication, both parties ought to look back, try to figure when and how it got out of hand and probably both parties are to blame (of course not always - I do remember I was eager and wanting to do something and my boss clearly wrote the line "don't do it, wait" in the chat - but I read exactly what I wanted to read - "do it, don't wait". Well, a digression ...)

Conflicts in the cryptocurrency space is nothing new, the division regarding the blocksize issue in Bitcoin has been holding the BTC quite much back I believe, and the ETH/ETC split is not a good thing. The current conflict does not need to harm the Steem blockchain as such, the involved parties just need to ignore each other, and that's it ... oh, and please stop flagging posts (or upvoting) merely on the basis of authorship.

Thanks for posting this! :)

Definitely we won't know who is telling the truth, and honestly - I don't care.

I am upvoting this post because it is written with respect to the opponent, even though he treated @heiditravels in a most disrespectful way possible.

I think this is the way we should communicate on Steemit (well, everywhere else too, but at least in public space).

You're upvoting drama. This post adds negative value to Steemit.

No, her reputation had been publicly ruined and it was her right to clear up the confusion. She has every right to tell her side. And considering how he lied about me, it is obvious who is telling the truth.

Actually I agree with you, I don't like this whole story to appear in trending. But at least this post is not a cascade of insults, which is already more healthy than what we saw before

See my top comment

Well then... I'm not exactly sure if that's a 100% confirmation of a meet up but I certainly see how it could have been perceived as one.. Interesting.

This does change the dynamics of this in my opinion. Now while I may not 100% agree with how fystikken reacted to the matter I do see how it may have been possible for all of this to be blown out of proportion all on massive misunderstanding and lack of proper communications..

Just my 0.02 SBD

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Sorry dude, i just don't see it. The whole reason he was pissed was that he booked a restaurant​ and a camera crew etc. On the basis of "sounds like a good idea" with no time or date mentioned? "Sounds like a good idea" isnt even "yes" let alone "Yes, book a table and camera crew on a specific date because ill be there". In fact, it is the very essence of a non-committal response.

  ·  8 years ago (edited)

Hmmm. Perhaps you're correct.

Does seem lavish. Although from what I know of fyrstikken he seems to lead such a lavish lifestyle

@fyrstikken is my Hero! Never hold back how you truly feel always release that energy out. @heiditravels great rebuttals as-well:) Cheers All!!!

Yes just ignore and keep rocking @heiditravels! Great blog.

Regardless ,You don't use that kind of language to a Woman, and even worse ,especially not on a Public Site!

well im surpised there is no flag wars and shit posting by @fyrstikken and @tuck-fheman yet

Heidi You Rock Girl
Keep On Steemin!

ignore him Heidi - jealousy is a green eyed monster - enjoy your travels see you in Egypt :)

Have you tried not giving a shit? I have. It's not working out,
but I don't care.

You are becoming a celebrity (at least here, in steemit). And the most powerful you become in this platform the most people will try to "use" you for their own interest. I've not yet really cross checked, but im sure he's made a couple of SBD's with that article about your "fictional" interview in Lima.

I'm on team @heiditravels all day. How dare he talk to a female like that!!

I wish you luck on your further adventures.

Using the word "female" is more offensive than any childish insult by @fyrstikken.

@heiditravels you're one of the people I follow because I love your travel blogs and I actually find it classy of you that you've just kept quiet.
rather read your travel blogs than this ...

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Quite fun to read though
Still we need evidence for the SteemCourt justice ahah

More seriously if everything is true. Just breathe and ignore...
It's like you are making a full advertising post for him. Thats quite weird too. Why wasting good energy on giving attention and a space on your blog as much as your precious time to post about it ;)
Just an advice

You re both trying to exploit something somehow

Thanks for sharing your story! People are different. From my own experience if you ever decide to visit my country, Ukraine. I would have been glad to accept you as a guest of honour. The truth is we are now in the East of the country is not very good events but where I live it is quiet and peaceful.

Whatever.

This is some heavy stuff :|

He´s a mother fucker!!!

He has been "unfollowed". Thank you and take care of yourself...

wow, this post earned over $1,000 DRAMA PAYS!
Anyone want to start some! ? lol

The guy has been blasting her in post for a week and profiting from it. She's simply defending herself, finally.

Oh, don't get me wrong I agree!

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I think he is just trying to monetize on all of the controversy that his posts will create. Human nature will attract people to read those types of posts

Wow. Just wow.

OMG

don't be so upset. we are hundreds to support you and your posts. Just ignore him and we will do the same. Cheers.

@heiditravels Daaaamn that's a rebuttal...I'm feeling a tiny bit aroused here ... ; ) (jk)

Keep up the good work, you're posts are awesome and entertaining =)

Your photos and travel blogs are incredible. The episode stinks. Hoping you are able to eventually wipe him off your shoe and continue your contributions to Steemit.

bit.do/tmprb

We need help from this guy regarding this matter!

soooo 1000$ for a false explanation. Way to go steemians! smh

It was interesting to read. Well the problem is described. The material is presented correctly. Post deserves attention. I want to re-read to familiarize yourself with the individual parts of the post. It sets out clearly and intelligibly. The problem outlined in the post appears clearly to our consciousness. Thank you for having clearly shown that this is the case. We had to get acquainted with it and know more about.
Why did an interview for the television audience?
Why in Peru?
Why did not he contacted more in Steemit.chat?

You don't get it, go look at the chat log between the 2. Its all bullshit and on top of that shes being paid for it.

Enjoy my city @heiditravels ...... it's a smashing place.

hahaha oh the drama...good you didn't meet with that guy, he seems very unbalanced.

Just take this as a challenge and move on. For outsiders, we can't judge but it is difficult to see who is telling the truth. But I believe that the truth will eventually be revealed.

First photo is great.

Wow I did not realize all this was happening and why Leah was so upset. Definitely we need to be able to block people. I don't even go in the rocket chat or whatever the hell it's called anymore. It was nice months ago but now it's just noise. Sorry you went through this, that kind of abuse is unacceptable.

good

Wow! I wish I'd seen this 2 days ago; it was always fishy to me; why would you pay for the camera crew if Peruvian TV are doing the interview; surely it is them who pay?

Just avoid this man, I had heard good things about him, but his behaviour in this case has been absolutely disgusting.

Cg

That guy is a real psycho, once I made a comment on his post but didnt downvote/flag it, guess what he does? He goes and flags several of my posts just because I critised an opinion. He needs help.

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