I don't see how on a platform based upon free speech and freedom that we can reasonably in good conscience as someone to change who they are just to suit the community. You live and die by the content you post in you own individual style. Some people are humble and some people are brash, some are introvert and some are extrovert. Yes I agree it;s OK to have opinions and pass judgements, but don't be expecting people to change their unique personality to fit the Steemit mould. There is no mould to fit we are free to bring value any way we like surely?