My First and major opinion is The word of God, God is the best to hear from, and He can will minister to you through His word.

And God's word being the base of my suggestions to you; I'll say:

i. The woman who loves only God more than you is key, pray about it, get close to her, know her in terms of character, know her mind, do you both see agreeably now and in future whether differently or not. How would you classify the love between you both... And lots more...

ii. A wise man said, if you don't know your purpose; what is your PASSION? Follow your passion, it will lead you to your PURPOSE.

Thank you for asking such insightful questions and giving the opportunity to air our views...

I hope you find what you are looking for...