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Today we will talk about a strategy that helps integrate the sides of children's brains, achieving the balance of their emotions: connect and redirect ...
Connect and redirect the child's brain
We as parents have experienced times when our children say things and complain in appearance for no reason.
CONNECT:
HOW DO WE CONNECT?
- To deactivate a tension situation, it is worth locating ourselves at the level of our eyes, bowing, touching them lightly, nodding and being empathetic.
- Give importance to your thoughts and emotions.
- We must talk less and listen more. If the child is talking uncontrollably, bothering him will not work, just listen and try to find what our child wants to tell us.
- Let's be a mirror, if we reflect what we hear because our children will feel happy and know that we are paying attention.
- Now that we can connect with our children and that the right hemisphere feels understood, we will redirect it using the left hemisphere. Remember that "every problem or situation can be an apprenticeship".
REDIRECT:
Once this need of the right brain is satisfied, we can now offer logical options and try to make the child propose his ideas and negotiate ours. With this exercise, we are forcing the left brain to activate the conversation and connect it with what we do for the integrated and coordinated functioning of both parties. This should always take place after the emotional bombardment because it is not a good time to learn lessons, usually when the left brain is not active.
My personal experience
I have a three-year-old girl, on occasion, she comes to me crying and telling me that she does not want to take a bath that she wants to watch children's videos.
As parents learn to balance their own emotions, without hesitating between their own feelings of guilt and anger, they can support and structure it more easily. Being well-intentioned and tuned will help children to have an emotional balance, learn to channel their failures, overcoming their fears. remember that we are the main example for our children, it is our responsibility that our children in the future are emotionally intelligent adults.
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Adults have to lower the pressure of the moment and put ourselves at children's level in all senses, it is simple with simple words, a gesture, a grimace, we interact with the smallest. It usually happens that adults forget that children can not reason as older people and it is there, where conflicts are unleashed.
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