TIL: Smelling My Boyfriend's Shirt Reduces My Stress

in steemstem •  7 years ago  (edited)

Have you ever been through moments of panic and anxiety? Have you noticed how these feelings seem to cool down when you make it into your SO's arms with your head protectively hidden in their chest, sniffing their unique body scent? Well, science has now a reason for that!


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How the story goes

A recent study has concluded that the scent of our significant other can reduce cortisol levels, making us feel more relaxed. The research was conducted by lead author Marlise Hofer, at the University of British Columbia and was published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (you can get the whole paper here: psycnet.apa.org - unfortunately, it's not for free).

For the study, 96 opposite-sex couples were "recruited". 

The men...

... were given a T-shirt to wear for 24 hours. The instructions were simple, wear the T-shirt and don't use anything that could spoil their natural smell, like deodorants, perfumes, food that mess with your body scent and smoking. 

The women...

... were randomly given a T-shirt to smell (the piece of clothing was either unworn, worn by their SO or by a stranger). Then it was time to go through various stress tests including:a mock job interview and a mental math task. They were asked questions to evaluate their stress levels. Saliva samples were also given to measure their cortisol levels.

The results...

... showed that the less stressed were the women who had smelled their partner's T-shirt. They had lower stress levels both before and after the stress tests. The ones who were able to identify their partner's smell also had lower cortisol levels. This implies that when being aware of the smell, the effects on the body are greater. On the other hand, the women who smelled a T-shirt worn by a stranger showed higher cortisol levels during the stress tests.

Why test only women?

Because their sense of smell is more acute than in men.

What do the results teach us?

It is probably evolution and primitive survival instincts to blame. Women smelling a stranger's T-shirt had higher cortisol levels. Hofer says this might be explained by the fact that:

"From a young age, humans fear strangers, especially strange males, so it is possible that a strange male scent triggers the 'fight or flight' response that leads to elevated cortisol. This could happen without us being fully aware of it." [source]
"Our findings suggest that a partner's scent alone, even without their physical presence, can be a powerful tool to help reduce stress." [source]

Senior author and assistant professor in the UBC department of psychology, Frances Chen, said applying this simple trick in real life can help people cope with stressful situations:

"With globalization, people are increasingly traveling for work and moving to new cities. Our research suggests that something as simple as taking an article of clothing that was worn by your loved one could help lower stress levels when you're far from home." [source]


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Stress is always bad, right?

The answer is no! Stress is a physical response powered by our survival instinct. When we are in danger, stress comes up, it helps the body realise it is threatened and prepare for "fight or flight". A cocktail of chemicals and hormones like adrenaline, cortisol and norepinephrine are released to keep the body on alert and ready for action. Other "measures" the body takes is to suppress unnecessary functions and pump more blood to the muscles in order to react to stimuli from the surrounding environment (stressors when we refer to stress inducing factors). Sweating and fast breathing are also present. All this is really helpful when a real danger is in front of us. 

When the "fight mode" is on, the body is ready to deal with the danger, showing aggresive behavior. In "flight mode" the body avoids the danger and runs away. There is also a third, "freeze mode" that expresses itself by an inability to react as the energy from the stimulus of danger gets "locked" into our nervous system.

Unfortunately, stress attacks even on a false alarm. When the body is stressed, the blood is directed to the muscles in charge for defending the body or running away, which means that we lose the ability to focus and think clearly. The results can be really harmful if stress persists for long periods. When cortisol levels are high, then blood pressure and sugar can also increase whereas the opposite happens to your libido. 

Three types of stress

  • Acute stress: the most common type. It is short-term and is caused upon thinking of a pressing event of the recent past or the near future. 
  • Episodic acute stress: when acute stress situations become too often. The person ends up irritable and tense on a regular basis, something that may lead to increased blood pressure and heart disease.
  • Chronic stress: when no escape from a stressful situation is possible or the person has given up on trying to cope with it. Chronic stress might have its roots in a traumatic experience earlier in a person't life and when not dealt with, it can lead to a final breakdown including heart attack, stroke, suicide and violent actions.

Effects on the body include:

sweating - pain in the back or chest - cramps or muscle spasms - erectile dysfunction and loss of libido - fainting - headache - heart disease - high blood pressure -  - lower immunity against diseases - muscular aches - nervous twitches - pins and needles - sleeping difficulties - stomach upset [source]

Emotional reactions include:

anger - anxiety - burnout - concentration issues - depression - fatigue - a feeling of insecurity - forgetfulness - irritability - nail biting - restlessness - sadness [source]

Stress-related behaviors include:

food cravings and eating too much or too little - sudden angry outbursts - drug and alcohol abuse - higher tobacco consumption - social withdrawal - frequent crying - relationship problems [source]

Causes

They are really subjective as what might be stressful for me, for another individual may seem indifferent or unimportant. But examples of: financial problems - family issues - problems at work, act as stressors.

How can I fight it?

Through proper medication (only when it is recommended by your doctor) and management techniques, stress that renders you dysfunctional in your everyday life can be coped with. Taking time for yourself, exercising and trying out breathing techniques are some of the best and harmless methods to fight it or you can follow...

... the main idea of the study:

A loved person's smell can help you calm down when feeling stressed, even when the specific person is not physically present. So, the next time you feel all sweaty and agitated because you missed an important deadline or got stuck in traffic and arrived late at work, make sure you carry a piece of your partner's clothing to sniff on.


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And a dark twist

If you haven't watched it, I recommend The Perfume (even though I think the book must be better than the silver screen version). Just don't get any crazy ideas after it...

References

sciencedaily.com
news.ubc.ca
psycnet.apa.org
stress.org.uk
medicalnewstoday.com

Thank you so much for your time!

Until my next post,
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Interesting concept!... lots of info researched...thanks

Thank you for reading! :)

One of my favorite books EVER:

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Jitterbug Perfume
is an epic.

Which is to say, it begins in the forests of ancient Bohemia and doesn’t conclude until nine o’clock tonight (Paris time).

It is a saga, as well. A saga must have a hero, and the hero of this one is a janitor with a missing bottle.

The bottle is blue, very, very old, and embossed with the image of a goat-horned god.

If the liquid in the bottle actually is the secret essence of the universe, as some folks seem to think, it had better be discovered soon because it is leaking and there is only a drop or two left.

I have written a musical with Tom Robbins called "B is for Beer". He is awesome. We are currently making an album of the songs. I will be sharing more about this project on Steemit in the near future. Jitterbug Perfume is amazing!

It sounds like a mixture of fantasy and action, or am I wrong?

How could you be wrong about a goat-horned god? You could only be right :-)
(Reading the book is like listening to jazz, only better)

You got me curious! :)

does this work with dirty underwear?

Doesn't everything?

You got a point. I ll hand some to my gf in case of emergency!

Would you like to message the researchers for a future experiment?

Email: [email protected]

Very good article. Spot on! From a male perspective having a scent that is low in cortisol (long term cortisol) and high in T is very important in finding a mate. This is also one reason why men mostly are encouraged to bath a lot and use deodorants as to stabilise the office environment.

Thank you for the input! I just love how chemistry controls our behavior! :)

Why test only women?
Because their sense of smell is more acute than in
men.

Since it is hardy possibly to determine something like "accuracy" as it comes to perception i am not so sure about the "accuracy" of this very statement, but one thing is sure: The female hormone balance is more directly and more strongly linked with the subconscious smell perception than in men, hence this allows for a way better correlation. The result of the study is therefore applicable in its full breadth and validity only to women. Nonetheless, a really cool research project. :)

Excellent notice and thank you! :)
That's how the article justified the testing on women. Unfortunately I didn't have access to the whole paper. But I intend to search it a bit further next week to see how came that conclusion of women being better "smellers"

At least a method to reduce women falling into flight mode and running away of from strange males too fast has been developed already 👠 ...not sure, what it does to the stress level of either party ;-)

Ahahahaha! This method is more in favor of men I guess, women don't fall into flight mode and men's blood pressure keeps rising (in a good way) :P

The sense of smell is a wonderful thing. Some smell just reminds one of certain event or even give you a nostalgic feeling of home or somewhere special. Any idea the reason female sense of smell is more acute to that of males? I've heard it a lot of places just never read why that is so.

Any idea the reason female sense of smell is more acute to that of males?

I didn't look it up TBH, but that's a good idea for a next post ;)

Ok. I'd be looking forward to it. Thanks.

Well once I had seen a documentary on discovery where the conclude that it's the smell that attracts the opposite sex not fragrance though that actually sounds weird back then .
For the excitement they took the case study of some of the oldest lovebirds of old times,and explains the law of attraction which cover how a human feel safe in perticular environment due to presence of loved once.& How this feeling can't be regenarated when someone else is there.
I think same laws apply for both the sexes.if one is better in somthing other one is also the master of a field too.and with their mutual concensus made their life better for eachother.
It sound like crypto demand & supply though.😁😁

I think same laws apply for both the sexes

Probably, but the study was on women. I'd like to see a new experiment on men and why not another twist, clothes worn by a boy/girlfriend and the mothers of the participants. That would certainly be interesting, although I think the results would come out more or less the same.

Thank you so much for reading and leaving a comment!

🤞 your post already suggest women outcome in smelling compare to to men.may be tasting the food prepared by their loved ones would be an exciting option.cause men's sense of tasting is quite good.

At once amazing but not too much ... The smell of a loved one must certainly somewhere in itself trigger a feeling of well-being ... A little like the baby feels safe with his blanket ^^

When I was reading the article I thought so too! Just like a baby smells the mother and comforts themselves, smelling your partner provides a sense of security.

Thanks for reading once again @marie2018! :)

Even though making people smell a shirt may sound stupid the idea behind as you mentioned too is pretty clever and shows that the smell of a familiar person can help us lower our stress levels. I don't know if that works with shoes :P Also i have seen the perfume movie, it was quite good and the ending epic!

Shoes?! Ahm... I think would cause the opposite result :P
As for the movie, yeah, it was sick but epic, like you said!

I guess it works that way, if you are really in love!! Smell is a very funny thing!
A beautiful smell that brings you memories, can travel you in time!!
It can make you feel comfort or the reverse depending what kind of smell it is!
Beautiful and very interesting post @ruth-girl 🙂!

We are so complex beings! A smell, a word, an image, they can all mess with your mind and change your mood at an instant.

Thank you so much fore reading @alinak15!

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I know, smelling though, is very peculiar!!!
I am very sensitive in smells in general, I can detect anything, the ingredients in a dish for example.

I have a lust for perfumes. I even make my own perfumes! It's a whole world of its own. Beautiful world ☺!!!

This is really amazing!! Perhaps you can share some of your perfume recipes on steemit under #beauty tag? :)

Yes at some point when I have my line of perfumes coming out, I will definitely bring them here. By the way I didn't know there is a #beauty area here.
So if someone has a line with beauty products (face - body care) could they promote here?

I don't know the rules, but if artists promote their work and sell their paintings on the platform, then why not perfumes and cosmetics?

You can always check if there are other growing tags that your perfume-posts could fit :)

Thank you 😚!!

Ok, I am glad that I can say "it's for my stress" when I huff my partner's chest when I greet him haha. My personality tends toward the higher emotional sensitivity, but my partner's rationality helps to encourage me to find action where worry and being "frozen" used to multiply my stress.

I dated a partner born without the sense of smell and it was clear to me that as someone with the sense, that I would find myself getting the warm and fuzzies and feeling happier when someone had traditional Dial soap (because it always takes me back to my grandma's pink bathroom), far more often than cursing my nose while pick up my dog's poop. The neuroscience behind our peripheral nervous system is so interesting, thanks for sharing!

huff my partner's chest when I greet him

I do that too! You can immediately forget what's bothering you for a while, don't you?

Living without smelling? That would be weird, how about taste, was it affected? Now you got me curious.

Thank you very much for taking the time to read! :)

He claimed no, but of course it had to be. He loved spicy foods. Like, painful spicy.

The biggest drawback to dating someone who can't smell is that they can't do a "sniff test" on lightly worn clothes...I learned to waft rather than huff that lol

Ahahahahaha! Poor you! It must have been like living with a nose-blocking cold all the time...

I feel it need not necessarily be the smell of boyfriend's shirt. If a daughter is more comfortable and secure with her dad, even that can be helpful in reducing the stress. I think science can do more research on that as well.

People we are comfortable with have a positive effect. I believe there must be similar tests on children-parents.
Thank you for reading!

It's funny but your post is true. @ruth-girl... When I am super bummed from my work I do this to recharge. I think there is warmth and comfort when I do this it's like another form of hugging your significant other.

I recharge the same way too! And just for a moment you forget what's bothering you and feel way better ;)

Thank you for reading @sakura1012!

Haha because we are doing the same thing. We relate to each other. Your welcome @ruth-girl

Why test only women?
Because their sense of smell is more acute than in men.

Maybe they did it only women but I always have the same too. I never tried to see if there were scientific explanations for it but I just enjoy doing it. I felt it's weird but now I know it's not.

I guess the results would be similar in men, if not a bit higher cortisol levels.

And you shouldn't feel weird. It's just a sign that you feel nice and comfortable with your girlfriend, so even the smell of her relaxes you.

Thank you for reading!! :D

Wow.. Thanks for the reply.

The connection between the amygdala and memory is incredibly powerful. Smell is the most powerful sense to reprogram our brains/thought patterns. This is part of what got my interested in essential oils and creating "aromatic anchors" for new positive thoughts we want to be able to access more regularly.

You mean something like aromatherapy?

Kinda. Heres a video I did about it. I should put one on dTube soon.

I disagree both genders respond to this. In fact I have my friends sarong which I smell to keep fresh but sadly it's worn off.

I believe it works on both too, but I think it should be a bit more intense in women. An experiment should be done on men too.
Thank you for reading @bentech8! :)

Does stealing your boyfriend's shirt have the same effect because it works for my girlfriend lol

I suppose it does! I get tempted sometimes! ahahaha!

Maybe this is a strange study, but this is very useful. and we have seen one more proof, that god created the man and the woman to complement each other, and need one another

Thank you for reading

Will your significant other be getting his t-shirt back?

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Only if he finds out it's missing :P

Girl Friend is also part of life Love is life..❤

Yes, thank you!

I don't like this post, because I miss someone whose shirt I haven't taken yet. :D! I'm kidding :D
Anyways, this is a great post, and I followed you :)

Thank you! :D

It’s a very interesting photography post. Stress is very bad for our health . Keep stress free and be happy always ... thanks for sharing the post.

Τhanks!