Everytime it's argument with my mum and she's always having something to complaining about.
I'm 26 years of age, soon to be a graduate with average grades in a few months. She says all my age group are married in their own home and had kids and doing something with their life while I'm wasting away and not following instructions that they give me when I'm staying in her home and I can't be living anyhow and doing anything I like in her house and if I don't like it I can go.
There's too many rules in the house things like having limited amount of time to cook in the kitchen, and must leave the window wide open when I'm having a shower always whether cold, rain or shine but I haven't saved up yet to be able to move out on my own and I haven't even got a decent job that I will have sufficient amount of money left to save at the end of the month.
I don't know what to do, If I don't find a job in my field after graduation, I'm thinking of being a social worker or any other better paid job. I don't know what to do, this place is getting very inconvenient for me.
I couldn't complain much before cos graduation was a long way to go but now the time to move out is near but I can't take it anymore but I do have a few £K in the bank but that won't take me a very long way or allow me to travel in the long run.
Any advice please?
You should definitely try to start saving as much money as you can right now. Limit unnecessary spending, and start actively looking for jobs that you could live off of come graduation. It sounds like your living situation is less than ideal for both you and your mother. I am willing to guess that once you move out and start being independent, your relationship with your mother will improve. If you read back your post to yourself and try to imagine it as someone else's situation and you are the one giving advice, what would you say? Best of luck!
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Yes, you should move out, please read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/
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