If Your Destiny Became Second Wife
Basically no one woman wants to become second wife. third ff, but sometimes fate can not be rejected, then we see where - where many wives second status, up to four. There are in the show bright there is also a hidden.
In Indonesia, if the status of a second wife as good as whatever he is, still just labeled as a snatcher husband and anyone as bad as any first wife, he is still considered the wife who terzolimi. If the husband has more than one wife, is considered a cat garong, but not necessarily all the wrong husband. He is not a merchant but a merely God's temple with us.
I asked a male friend who has 2 wives, he said that staying with his first wife just because he did not want to hurt his son. For ten years he was patient and always advised his wife, but inwardly he felt tired. I do not want to ask further what makes her tired.
One day he decided to take another wife and be frank with the first wife. Strangely after marriage, the first wife changed much much better. But my friend is not the type of married snailmen who got married and then divorced. He is not a person but is very responsible to the family.
Although the second wife is not as beautiful as the first, the age is not much different, but for him the second is the tranquilizer of the soul. He loves his second wife not because of his phisik but things like he mentioned below:
- Religion, he obeyed God's command and avoided his prohibition.
- Making a husband as a priest, he is a devout and devoted woman to her husband
- Very respectful of his first wife and children, never respond when the first wife is jealous / angry.
- If the husband is upset with the first wife, he asks her husband to go home to the first wife and solve the problem well.
- It never matters when the husband is longer in the first wife, he waits faithfully at home.
- Not much demand and know yourself as a second wife
- Taking care of all the needs of the husband from the big to the small hal2.
- Shame at all times if the husband wants to split up and return to have 1 wife only.
The story of the friend above makes me stunned, it turns out that's what makes him so love second wife. I got a valuable lesson that we as wives should keep trying to keep husbands not disappointed.
My conclusion is that the first wife is not always good and the second wife is not always bad, but that is the fact that sometimes the wife finds it difficult to accept (including me).
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