On all my remarks, my husband threatens with divorce

In marriage with her husband of 7 years, there is a child of 3 years. The problem is that my husband works 4/2 and spends all his weekends with his father (his father lives with his stepmother) and every weekend they drink.

I have a bad relationship with my stepmother and my husband's father; I am against my husband drinking and about this I have often told his father. During trips to my father my husband forgets to call us. With his son for three years he walked 10 times and then in the presence of me. After work, he comes and falls on the sofa (although I also work), on weekends, if at home, he gets up, how he sleeps, and if he comes from his father, he will not leave at all. At night he never gets up, even if he hears that the child is awake or crying. Now we are taking the child to the garden, the husband has a weekend in the middle of the week, but he never takes the child to the kindergarten - I have to be late.

If my husband starts saying that he does not spend time with us, let's go three together somewhere, then he starts yelling at me: "I'll explain everything now to you," begins to divide property, frightens divorce, etc. Yes, and his father has long helped my husband divide the property, which and who will get, if suddenly divorced and my husband agreed with him and intimidates me every time. He calls me every time to his father, but I refuse, tk. I was told in my face that we will not be cuddling with your son.

In marriage, we bought a basement room, it needs to be repaired. The husband refuses to hire the brigade, he says, there is no money (although at the weekend with his father he can drink 2-3 thousand for an evening). And as a result, the premises are already three years old.