Do You Get Butterflies ... Because Sometimes I Feel I Personally Have All Of The Butterflies That Exist

in success •  7 years ago 

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Oh yes, you bet... I am scared silly ... petrified as hell I tell you. I have always been.
People think... you are Ok Lewin you are not afraid of anything. of course, I am.
In fact, that is exactly why I take action on my goals because I have learned that you are supposed to be afraid.

I do a lot of research on success, psychology, and brain science and I understand four things:

  1. That it is human nature to have fear.
  2. The brain is not designed for you to win by default you have to train it. The brain only wants to make you survive and be at ease at the moment that's it. Hence the saying for those who cannot control the mind it is the greatest enemy for those who learned and have conquered the mind the mind is the best tool and friend.
  3. If you want to win your desire to win has to be greater than your fear of failure
  4. And as the quote goes as you step boldly towards your fears they melt away.

It was Aristotle that said; you will never do anything in this world without courage.It is the greatest attitude of the mind next to honor.

Once you establish courage, you begin to better your life. Constructing courage will help you take risks to a brighter future that you usually wouldn't take. When you establish courage, you put fear behind you. Bravery is the process of admitting that you have

dreads, yet you're willing to determine a way to defeat those fears and not let these fears take charge of you.

It's ok to experience your fears at suitable times.

When you establish courage, you'll learn to self-direct you in life. You'll learn to accept punishment and rewards graciously.

A courageous individual will frequently feel motivated to accept blame and responsibility while critiquing their actions and utilizing what they learn to move forward.

Brave individuals will step to the front, instead of stepping back

when opportunities come their way. On the other hand, a brave

)individual will step back and take a view of his or her errors gracefully.

An individual willing to better their life will relax. This individual will relax even when plans fail.

For example, if it stormed the next day the individual will find

something else to occupy his or her time and feel just as happy about joining this adventure.

To get successful and better your life you'll need to learn how to trust you.

When you trust you, you are able to trust others also. Regrettably, we live in a world where trust is difficult to find, yet when you trust you, you cant blame, other people, when things go wrong.

Bettering your life includes utilizing your creative and critical mind. When you can produce fresh ideas, you're off to the road to success. You've many options in this world; it takes

you to pull up resources to find those choices.

Occasionally in life, we feel uncomfortable. In fact, this is common. Are you willing to accept your irritations? Maybe at an interview, you feel lost.

Are you willing to accept this irritation and discover a way to deliver a great speech to impress the interviewer?

Alternatively, are you willing to allow negative energies cost you the job?

Acceptance is your key to happiness. When you are able to learn to accept the good with the bad, you are able to learn how to live happier and better your life.

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Nice post

Thanks so much

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