Success is something that cannot be achieved overnight. It requires hard work, perseverance, determination and strong willpower. Temporary failure in any work means that you will be disappointed, you are the best creature of creation, you will not be disappointed. You have to awaken the latent talent inside you.
Success is like a golden deer or the last train of the night. Everyone is running towards him. The question in everyone's mind is, when will the deer be seen or will I be able to catch the train? Some people try year after year for success, some people score goals on the field. Again, no one works hard for success, but lives a life of monotony. Success can be compared to flying a kite in the sky. The more you try to fly the kite, the more you have to pull the thread against the wind. As soon as the wind blows, the kite will start descending. Today I will talk about seven ways to be successful.
1. Put yourself first
You have to learn to take care of yourself wherever you want to be successful in life.
If you don't value yourself the most, you won't find the balance in life
In this case, you have to pay attention to your physical and mental health.
A positive attitude is essential to success
Then come the people closest to you, the family and the people closest to you. Keep up to date with the latest news from their lives. "Although it may be difficult to do this at Rose, try."
Then start your own work.
2. Don't stop moving forward
Edith Edge, a psychologist returning from the Auschwitz concentration camp in Germany during World War II, has always considered himself a mountaineer.
"When a climber starts climbing, he slips, goes down two or three steps. But he doesn't stop climbing.
I slip and fall like that but I don't stop climbing, I will never stop. "
In the 70's and 80's, women in western countries worked in garment factories. Edith's parents were executed at the Auschwitz concentration camp, but she survived.
He later moved to the United States to study psychology.
"People will be able to kill me, torture me. But no one will be able to finish my soul and the consciousness of moving forward."
3. You don't have to think about what others are thinking
There is no need for others to care about you.
Because you can believe what you think about yourself without the approval of others.
"I don't care what others think of me. I like my own appearance, but a lot of other people don't seem to like it."
"I've learned to believe, how I look doesn't always matter."
"It's not a big deal for my friends or those who love me. I think it's important to remember."
4. Change perspectives
A lot of times at a bad moment we think we're buried, or we're drowning.
But that can be thought of differently, as we may think that the seeds of something new have been sown.
Actress Kelsey O'Keefe says, "I firmly believe that you have to decide how you feel about your life or your decision.
We need to make it a point to look positively. "
Change perspectives and view failure as a positive.
"Drowning or sowing seeds --- both are happening under the ground or under water.
But in both cases there is a difference of opinion, one is very negative. The other is a positive attitude, which impresses your thinking process. "
"There are many moments in my life when I feel like I'm dead, but in those moments I start all over again."
5. Stay around positive people
If you have positive people around you all the time, then you should not question your own abilities or be hesitant about your failures.
"In my agency, we hire people who scatter light around, not those who drown others."
He says, "We like people who are always positive in all situations, agree to do everything and give their best to get it."
"Those who are full of energy themselves can inspire others. If you want to improve, stay away from those who are depressed or arrogant."
6. Shake your head
Use your intelligence in any situation.
"My mother used to say we don't know where we're going, we don't know what's going to happen in our lives.
But just as others do not know what is inside our heads, no one can snatch it away. "
"I came to America empty-handed, didn't know English. But look, I graduated with honors from a well-known university in this country. I tell everyone, the greatest strength of man is his ability to shake his head."
7. Give yourself occasional leave
It is not possible for a person to be successful in the same way all the time.
And if you can't succeed, there is nothing wrong with that.
"We are taught all the time we have to be able to do everything. We have to be creative all the time.
But we also need time to rest and think anew. "
"A person needs time to fill his inner void, as well as leisure to evaluate his own work."
It could be five minutes at the end of the day, think about what you did throughout the day, how you did it, how you could do it better.
Excluding phone calls at this time, just give yourself some time without watching TV.
8. Failure is not the end of life
If you fail at something, don't think your life is over.
Instead, think of these as actions that you must take on a regular basis to begin the process of preparation for mediation.
Film personality Lily Collins says, "I always tell myself, 'being' negative 'means' no', but it's' not now '."
There will be no tomorrow that has not happened or is not likely to happen now, it doesn't make sense.
If you follow these things, insha'Allah, success will come to you.
