The compliment is a tiny term, but it is not as small as it seems to be. There is a tremendous strength hidden in this word. As everything around us impacts our mental operations, similarly, passing a compliment on someone you want to get changed can bring a massive manipulation inside that particular person. It is not just the combination of ten letters, but it has feelings filled with; hope, confidence, self-esteem, energy, intelligence, motivation, and all the qualities that a gentleman bears. God has endowed us with unique qualities, and among the similar attributes, every person has been bestowed with intelligence and perception to interact and understand the given situation.
However, when the compliment is received, it gets through the receptors and strikes the perceptual process of an individual, which then enables the mind to pay attention. In addition, when a particular phenomenon is brought under the supervision of attention, the energy of taking action is produced against a complimented word. Because a person for his success needs to is having attention to his work. The human mind is designed to seek solutions to his questions and problems, and this scenario is no less than tension to the receiver. Thus, the person tries to act by the compliment received. At the same time, this process and the energy are produced and revealed due to the small word called compliment.
For instance, a mother wants her child to be Noble and respectful; she has to compliment him in one way or another, in front of people in surrounding or alone, that My child, Ali, is very decent and noble. What effects would it cause? The impacts of responsibility, sincerity, sensibility, demand, and respect that my mother has been viewing me so honorable and respectful, let's become the way my mother wants me to be. But, in addition to this, there's a taste and happiness hidden in practicing the compliment. Because all a person somehow wants is social approval, value, prestige, and respect. In comparison, a child can quickly get them all in response, making him used to it.
Take another example of a school-going child, who always wears dirty and un-pressed clothes and one day he arrives a little clean to the school, and during the lecture, his teacher and friends compliment him with certain words of applause for cleanliness, what would happen? That the child will feel the taste of social approval, attention, and applause. It would now become the habit of the child to wear good clothes and come tidy to the school. All this happened is just because of the word "compliment."
To conclude, we shouldn't have to be a miser in passing compliments because it produces love, peace, harmony, motivation, and a friendly environment crucial to mental health in all departments of life. Thus, it becomes an excellent technique for people who want to get changed, and then the result of a self-transformation can be observed in them.
ASAD ZARAWAR KHAN