The people who know how to give a good blow job each do the same many things. Moment, I’m going to reveal these things the exact ways, attitudes, and tips that these “deepthroat queens” use to give their men the stylish oral sex of their lives. I’ll be breaking everything down, step-by-step so that you’ll be armed with multiple ways to start giving your man a great deep throat easily. You’ll also learn the tips, and tactics to heighten his pleasure during it and how to finish giving him head so that he orgasms harder than ever ahead.
I’m also going to educate you some veritably advanced ways that will make him suppose you’ve befriended a pro deep thoats!
Using This Blow Job Guide For Incredible Deep Throat Sex
This is a blowjob book – Treat this deep throat job tutorial like you would treat a recipe book.
Don’t feel compelled to use every suggestion, tip, technique, and position.
Instead, be flexible
Use the blow job ways that work for you and your man to give the most pleasure. And, forget about the blow job tips that don’t work as well. Some men respond better than others to different ways. Feel free to put your own spin on these ways and alter them to suit you.
Communication & Preferences: Don’t Ignore This
This Effective communication will help you to snappily figure out what ways your man adores and which ones he finds so-so.
- Some guys love it when you deep throat them, some don’t care for it at all.
- Some guys love the idea of you swallowing their load while others are turned off by it.
- Some guys fantasize about giving you a facial, but others find it pointless.
- Some guys want you to constantly spice up your blow jobs while others actually prefer you using the same few techniques.
- Some guys may adore you fondling their testicles during oral sex, while others will find it distracting.
The point I am trying to make is that your guy is going to adore some of the techniques from this deep throat tutorial while he isn’t going to get much from other techniques and ideas. The key is talking to your man and learning his preferences. This way, you can quickly figure out which techniques give him the most pleasure and work best.
With this in mind, here are a few quick tips on communicating effectively with your man so that you can give him the best deep throat of his life…
Getting feedback
Getting honest feedback on your blow job technique is vital if you want to improve. The best time to get feedback is right after his orgasm. At this time, he’ll be relaxed and very thankful and more likely to be open about his desires with you. The other times that almost always work great is during foreplay or after he’s had a few drinks.
What if your man is incredibly uptight, and won’t give you helpful, direct feedback?
Here’s what to do:
The next time you go down on him, just beforehand, give him a choice of two options:
“You have a choice: I can deep throat you til you cum, or I can focus only on the tip of your cock. What would you prefer? And you can’t choose both.”
If you are stuck for blow job ideas, you can give him a choice of any of the techniques, tips, and ideas for sucking his cock throughout the rest of this guide.
Choking, gagging, drooling and throwing up
If there is anything you don’t enjoy when giving your man a blow job, he needs to know, and he needs to respect your wishes. So if you don’t enjoy:
- His hands on the back of your head, pulling you in and out.
- Deep throating.
- The taste of his semen.
- Never-ending blow jobs.
- You need to tell him, and he needs to respect these boundaries.
Of course, if you do enjoy these things, then you should let him know too.
Your Blow Job Feedback
For most guys, their body will provide the best feedback for you. When a guy is really enjoying himself, he will find it hard to keep quiet or prevent his body from reacting to the pleasure you’re giving him.
- Listen to his breathing – Does it shorten/quicken or get heavier, meaning he’s enjoying himself? Or does it remain unchanged?
- Listen to his voice – Along with his breathing, does he start to moan, groan, or “Ahhhh” & “Ohhhh.” These are some very obvious signs that what you’re doing is working.
- Listen to his body – Does he remain perfectly still, or can you see his body writhing with pleasure. Clenched fists, curled toes, grabbing you, arching his back, tilting his head back/lifting his chin up are all signs that you have been thoroughly satisfying him.
The Best Technique – Enthusiasm
Enthusiasm is by far the most powerful thing you can incorporate into your deep throat job skills and sex life. Think about it this for a minute…
Have you ever been merely going through the motions with a guy, where he seemed almost uninterested and unenthusiastic about getting it on? It’s a real turn off and can make you feel very unsexy. On the other hand, have you ever been with a guy who can’t keep his hands off you, who looks at you like a lion eyeing his prey and when you do get intimate with him, he kisses you with intense passion and makes love to you with his entire being. It’s like he’s possessed and all he can think of is…you.
It’s incredibly arousing.
He’s acting with complete enthusiasm and focus on you.
This is the power of enthusiasm.
When you give your boyfriend a blow job (or hand job or have sex with him) while being completely enthusiastic about it and totally focused on him, it’s going to massively arouse and turn him on.
So even if you’re aren’t totally sure about what you’re doing, just focus on being enthusiastic. You’ll be surprised at how much this tip alone can be enough to make your man scream with pleasure. You don’t have to give a perfect blow job if you’re really enthusiastic and into it!
Here are two examples that should open your eyes to the importance of enthusiasm when giving a guy a blow job.
- Imagine that you have little experience of giving deep throats. You aren’t sure what to do, but you can’t wait to go down on your man. When you get him alone, you push him down on the bed, rip his pants off, and quickly take him into your mouth. You’re using a simple up & down motion and nothing else, but he can hear your enthusiastic slurping, see that you are enjoying yourself, and feel your hands all over his body as you feel the pleasure you are giving him. You are entirely lost in the moment and seem joyfully fixated on making him cum.
- Now imagine being very experienced and you agree to give your man a blow job. First, you ask him to shower and take out the trash. You then place a pillow on the floor to protect your knees and take off your top, because your priority is keeping it clean. You then start giving him a blow job using multiple techniques, but you don’t make a sound or seem enthusiastic at all. You stay on your knees and barely move at all. You’re completely out of the moment and are thinking about work emails.
Which is hotter? Scene #1, obviously!
That’s the power of enthusiasm. Even if you are a complete beginner, being enthusiastic automatically makes your blow jobs feel incredible.
Building Deep Throat Confidence
Practice, Practice, Practice – If you want to be more confident when going down on your man and actually give him a good blowjob, then you need to practice first. The good news is that you don’t have to practice on your man. The easiest way is by using a dildo or something else clean and phallic-shaped.
Just be careful not to push the dildo too far down your throat to prevent choking! With practice, you’ll easily memorize multiple techniques and learn how deep you enjoy taking a penis into your mouth. There is no such thing as a bad blow job – Lastly, keep in mind that there is no such thing as a bad blow job. Even a lousy blow job will still feel good to your guy.
You should try to only give him oral when you genuinely want to give him pleasure…AND nothing else.
Giving A Hot, Sexy Blow Job Is About Feeling Comfortable
When you focus on feeling comfortable, you’ll be natural, relaxed, and confident…and blowing your man will feel effortlessly sexy.
The Build Up & Blow Job Foreplay
Get it right, and you can be sure that he will be bragging to his friends about how you give an amazing deep throat!
You want to begin by teasing and touching him before you then slowly and gently start to pleasure him with your mouth.
Blow Job Techniques
Once you begin giving him oral sex, you don’t want to use just one technique from start to finish. The best way to give a blow job is to use multiple techniques so that he never knows what to expect next, including massaging his balls.
Hardcore & Filthy Cock Sucking
You can still take it up to another level and surprise him with the ultimate blow job when you learn even more blow job skills!
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Blow Job Positions Demonstrated
In addition to the techniques you use on your man, the position you are in when you give your man a blow job plays a vital role. Will you submissively get down on your knees? Will you push him onto the bed and take control? Or will you lie back on the bed, with your head hanging over the edge while your man remains standing?
The position you are in when giving your man a deep throat can change the sensations you give him.
Certain positions can also make deep throating way easier, speaking of which…
Deep Throat With Ease
Deep throating your man can be tough…OR…surprisingly easy. All it takes is the right blow job training and give a killer blow job.