"Loneliness is the reason why people feel sadness."

Lot of sad incidents on the news recently. There were people killed themselves. Most of the reasons of it were depression. Base on what I understand, depression is an illness of our mind. Don't get me wrong, this is just how I understand about this matter. But one thing is I'm sure of this. Those who felt depression are those people who felt sadness. That sadness happen when they they thought that they were alone. They thought that no one's there to love them.

I just hope that if you heart or witnessed situation like this. Don't ever think of misjudged them. We don't know the pain they're bearing and we don't their story. People are capable of loving and the opposite of it. People are capable of feeling pain. Especially those people are very emotional.

Don't think that they're weak because they gave up. Maybe they just felt too much pain that it triggers them to end their lives. It's easy for us to say maybe that all we need to do is to cry if the pain is too much to bear. Or we even suggested that goes out with friends and have fun. But as what I've said, we are different in individuals. Some of us think's like that, while some of us think's it's no use at all.

What if they experienced loneliness since they were just a child? What if they just wanted to be with everyone but everyone seems afraid to them. The people choose not be with them or even worst is they choose to stay away? Who else over there wanted to live alone? Of course no one because being alone makes us sad. Everyone wanted to smile so that they will enjoy their lives in this world. Being able to cry is part of our lives in this world. But being not be able to laugh with other people is like we're not alive at all.

Have you tried watching a kid that was watching with other kid's having fun? How did it felt for you or what did you think that kid felt when you watched that kid? I'm sure it broke your heart because if we have a normal mind, we love children and we wanted them to be happy. But by watching that kid felt lonely. You or we already knew how painful it was being left alone even though we want to have fun as well.

ADVICE

That's why please be observant of the people sorround's you. Not just your friends but also to other people who need's people like you as well. Don't isolate them from everyone and let them joined you. Let them feel that in this world they're not alone. They have someone who wants them to be with them as well. Let them feel that they're being love like how they love others.

Always treat people as part of the family. By thinking like that you'll be afraid of hurting their feelings. Also by thinking like that you'll always feel welcomed them to be part of the group. Don't let them end their lives by that kind of feeling. We only live once so we must not waste it. If you're strong to stand all the pain. Be a weak person to think that you need someone to be with you as well. By depending on someone doesn't mean your weak. Just think of it that you let other to become strong like you.

Spread love by doing simple things. It's not lowering your pride being able to approach first to people. It's just about how you can help others.

I laughed when people around but it doesn't mean I'm strong. Will you please let me lean on you sometimes?

Thank you for reading

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