I encounter 3 toxic relationship advice that adults gave me in my 20's, and how this changed my perspective on romantic relationships. All of them are in you also, but the difference that you can make is to observe your behavior, and your thoughts and to live the life that you want on your own terms, rules, principles, and advice.
- If you want your lover to be faithful you have to keep him in chains
Yes, ladies and gentlemen, the lesson of controlling others comes from an early age. Control every move that they have and you will gain all the power in the relationship. What I've learned is that suffocating others because you are insecure is not going to make you or your partner happy. If you can't trust your partner why you are still in that relationship?. Controlling everything they do is not going to help you gain their love. You should not be controlling every step that they do in order to make you feel good about your relationship. - If you don't like something just shut up
In many ways, people told me to shut up. '' Don't do this because you will get in trouble, just sit in your place''. And sometimes they are right. But, there are also many times when I have to stand for myself and my family no matter how uncomfortable the other person feels. I have a soul too. I am human too. I can't take your crap all day long without saying anything. Controlling people are scared of creative people. - Be a people pleaser if you want someone to like you
Is it not that hard, right? Be the clown of the people, amused them, entertained them, and make them feel at home because if you don't do this, you are impolite and rude. You are just not…right if you are doing things the other way. I tell you that I was a people pleaser without even knowing it. Last year I had a conversation about this with my partner. He would tell me that because we were in an awkward situation created by other people I started to become a people pleaser without even realizing it. It was like a mechanism to make others feel ok, no matter what I was doing or saying.
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