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When we were in our twenties, we were confused about three things

I've been thinking about what people should do when they are alive for a long time.

Most of us, before the age of 20, have learned only one thing in life, that is, examinations.

Learning is not learning at all, and reading can not be called reading. The whole life in school is examination, examination and examination. Teachers will not take you to see nature, will not tell you the principle, they will only tell you the knowledge, and the correct answer.

In school, we are fighting for who can quickly solve the problem, who can quickly find the only and correct answer.

No one has asked you what you like. Maybe your academic performance is not good, but in addition, you have nothing to do. You are arranged to learn everything and trained to imitate the teacher to find the answer. So when you suddenly step out of that door and see the choice and the world, you will be confused.

Confusion is normal.

Entering a university and choosing a major is not a life orientation. Everything is just the beginning. It takes a long time to explore and find the answer. What am I going to do?

Many people are impetuous because they want an answer when they just get this question. It's like when they go to school, as long as they see a problem they can't do, they want to turn back a few pages.

But life has no standard answer, and even some people do not even know what the topic is.

I can only think and see patiently.

The answer I found was this:

While I'm alive, I have three things to do.

First, take responsibility. For example, to support their parents and give them a better life.

Second, realize yourself. People have the need to realize their ability, we must feel self-worth, in order to be happy. I have many dreams, some brilliant talents, and many irrelevant ideas, so I want to find my own wheat field, sprinkle my sweat, and completely realize myself.

Thirdly, spare effort benefits people. We must learn to give more to those we know and those we don't know. Dedication can make people happy.

These three are the order of my life. They are not absolutely correct, but they are in line with my temperament and values. Therefore, when I make choices, I will consider them from top to bottom according to these three criteria. If you know what you are going to do, you have the answer.

How to realize oneself? There are only three things you can find in the future that can make you fully bloom

You like it.

You're good at it.

What you have right now.

It sounds simple, but what do you like? What are you good at? What are the opportunities? That's enough for a young man to think about for years.

So be patient.