MONEY Mayhem: Maids, Madams, May-Mac, McAfee, MLM and most things in between

in untold-stories •  7 years ago  (edited)

Middle-class worries

I’ve been reading a lot about “money” recently. Whether it is bitching over a 100 million dollar boxing match, bets that bitcoin hits half a million dollars, bemoaning 100s of thousands of pounds paid to BBC (male) ‘talent’, or berating those pocketing tens of thousands via Multi-Level Marketing referral schemes.

Moaning about money is a (not so) fine art that many are schooled in.

Living in an affluent country, gripes about who makes and takes what ‘money’ and from where, have an air of frivolity about them. Those 'BBC lovies' are getting paid too much… $100 PPV for a joke of fight! GTFOH!!.... I’m HODLing, pumping, dumping my bitcoin, shitcoin for dear life!.... It’s about the size of the cake and how much everyone else (in particular the ‘undeserving’) is making.

Maids and barricades

Occasionally however I stumble across a story that helps put money disputes into perspective. Today I was flicking through social media when I saw a linkironically, shared by a person that owes me money from about 10 years ago (but that's another story, I won’t get into here). The link was about a dispute in India between ‘maids’ and their ‘madams’. What started as a dispute between a domestic worker (Zora Bibi) and her employer (Mitul Sethi), escalated in to a full-blown riot in Mahagun Moderne, a high rise of luxury flats in Sector 78, Noida, India.

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On one side of the story, an employer was accusing the worker of stealing under $300 worth of rupees. On the other side is a worker claiming to have not been paid 12,000 rupees, two months wages (worth under $200). This intensified further with allegations ranging from the worker being beaten to her going missing for a day and being found in the boot of her employers car. What is known is that domestic workers, friends and acquaintances of Bibi, raided the gated community and had pitch battles with police before the situation was brought under control.

Thus giving the outside world a glimpse into the chasm between the haves and have nots in India.

Marriage of convenience

For me it was a reminder of my experience in India, last year. It was not unusual for middle-class families to have domestic help who cooked, cleaned and did the laundry for them. Some become extended, less privileged extensions to the family. It can be an uneasy marriage of convenience. With neither side 100% certain of the true sentiment that lies beneath the arrangement – however each dependent on the other.

I had a similar experience when I last went to Ghana. I was a lot younger then. I remember having heated debates with my cousins about the ethics of getting young kids to run errands for measly sums of money.

Alien nation

Such ways of life are alien concepts in the UK. The nearest I’ve come to this is hiring a cleaner for a couple of hours a week when my wife was heavily pregnant. It felt odd. I found myself cleaning up ahead of the cleaner arriving! My ‘cleaner’ happened to be an Eastern European law student who was cleaning part-time for extra cash. A stop gap. A means to an end.

For the domestic workers in places like India however, there often is no end in sight. They do menial work in luxury apartments by day, and go back to sleep in tin huts at night. The money they make barely sustaining their existence. This is the reality of life without the safety net of 'social security'.

Deeper divides

Often the ‘marriage of convenience’ between rich and poor masks deeper divides. In the Mahagun Moderne, the workers were predominately poor Bangladeshi Muslims. Thus when tensions flare, the ethnic and religious divides bubble quickly to the surface. With accusations of police bias towards the Hindu residents and against the foreign Muslims.

In plenty of communities around the globe, many people, by virtue of ethnicity, race class or caste, stand little chance of raising above their station or simply improving their standard of living. Whereas here 'in the West', it often simply takes a change of mindset or focus for most to overcome perceived financial and social hurdles.

(Not so) Mexican standoff

So while we wait… for Bitcoin to reach one million dollars per unit in three years time or for May-Mac to deprive of 100 PPV dollars on August 26th, or for BitConnect to implode, perhaps, sometime soon…

In Sector 78, Noida there is a real stand-off.

Between $3 dollar a day domestic workers on one side and residents of a luxury complex on the other. One side figuring out how to make ends meet, the other who (among other things) will cook their food to eat. Money may not make the world go around, but it certainly helps grease its wheels.

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Really good post man and brings incredible perspective. We in the West take so much for granted. All it truly takes to be successful in the West is a "change of mindset". Through sheer will you can accomplish anything you put your mind to, while in other less privileged countries your caste in which you were born in is more than likely where you will stay. Jim Rohn I feel said it best, "Money is not the most important thing, but it ranks right up there with oxygen in terms of it's importance."

mindset is king

I found myself cleaning up ahead of the cleaner arriving!

Everyone I know with a cleaner does this! It has always cracked me up; I kind of get it though :-)

So true what you right; like you when I went many years ago next door to Ghana, in Nigeria, I saw similar things, and the uneasy marriage between the haves and have nots was very stark there.

It was not uncommon to be robbed by your "house-boy" and/or maid. I heard many stories of supposedly loyal staff, letting in friends to rob their employers. In that situation, the employers were lucky to escape with their lives, as the thieves rarely wanted to leave any witnesses behind.

Cg

This whole situation boils down to the divide between the rich and the poor. The economic inequality is increasing at a steep rate with no relief in sight for the people from the humble background. More often than not poor people end up getting abused because of the screwed up economic system.

This really provided awareness as to what is truly going on around the world! I especially loved how you talked about the Marriage of Convenience @nanzo-scoop

interesting... marriage is an example of agape altruism... commitment... community
and it is very fundamental to, for, and in, and through, many things

Thabks for this read. That's why I love to travel. It brings perspective to our lives. I live in America and there perceived financial problems we have is nothing compared to third world countries such as India.

That's why I think Steemit is so cool, it connect you with people from all over the world. You have the ability to help someone out in a third world country. Giving a dollar a dollar to someone in a third would country could potentially feed a family.

agreed... and this Steemit community is helping in that and more

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

It something to really think about... many people live in their own reality, ignorant on what is going on with the real world. We all have different perceptions about what is right or wrong.... any hoooo ... AUG 26th LOL

so true!

very good read man. I hated in what strange reality the super rich people in Jakarta live compared to the slums that the city has... Kinda reminded me of that...

Strong post. I sometimes reflect on why a pensioner in Ukraine working all his life at a factory gets a scanty pension, and another who has never worked at times gets more. I wish you happiness! I vote and follow! Hello from Ukraine!

Soros divides and conquers houses, countries, societies.

Thank You @nanzo-scoop
I need This

LOVED THIS!
I wish we could see the fight together and pay 50-50 :) You are a notoriousMMA fan, right?
Predictions?

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

great post , what you said is all true
it took me 10 min to read .

good,, upvote me

Interesting indeed

I guess those differences, how odd and unfair they might seem, will always be there. Unless you would want to live in a heavily communistic country...but who in their right mind would find that sounding appealing? Anyway like you said it might have felt odd for you to clean up before the cleaning lady came. Almost like you felt guilty to even have someone working in your service. Thing is these people have nothing probably and wont be able to get regular jobs or any other guarantees of income...they have to live off of jobs provided by the wealthier community and thats how it should be, I think. There are major social differences that wont be gone anytime soos, so you might as well provide jobs for them and they might as well take advantage of that and earn themselves a living even if its, by our standards, not very much. You're right there is a lot talk about biiiig money these days, but thats just how the world revolves and keeps us sharp not wanting to miss out on our own opportunities to make some of our own. Nothing wrong with that.

interesting

Great job @nanzo-scoop ! I resteemed!

Powerful stuff!!

Money runs the world and everybody has their own money problems, big or small. It doesn't matter how much money you have. The way I usually think about this is not from the perspective of how different we are, but how much alike we are. At any moment, the government or a hacker can take all our money. So we are in the same boat as the person who has a maid who robs them.

This is an awesome post. It really does put things into perspective. I try to teach my kids the same thing. Show them how people in other parts of the world, and even in parts of the US live and how fortunate we really are. We don't have a lot of money and my wife and I work hard, but we do try to appreciate where we are and never complain. Well... rarely. lol I appreciate you posting this, and helping us all put things into perspective. Mad respect!
Thanks for all the support on my posts. You rock.

A Strong women looks a challenge in the eye and gives it a wink
Cheer for world cup final for Team INDIA @aaravm and upvote post

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