The basic point of view:

 Getting involved in an awkward situation, and taking part on someone else's life will make you feel astonished, or terrified. Take into consideration that depends not only on your facial expresions, it also involves you patience and how much you know the afected person, nevertheless their reactions might follow different results that you  should know by reading and realize that:

  When you're angry:

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 You don't want to believe that the world is innocent, everyone else is guilty except for you. People gets delicate  and everyone tends to not comprehend what happens with him/her, if they never experienced the same or not, the results depend on:

• How much you let him/her think about what happened
• How involved you are
• what did you do to get involved

What to do?

 temper is easy to control,  Leave that person until he stops being agresive, then talk with a normal voice... like a regular friendly conservation. Explain that you comprehend the problem and let that person know how minimun his problem is. The best way is tryng to minimize the problem as much as you can... He needs to feel that his issues are small and insignificant, angry people like to exteriorize hard feelings, take him to do a fun and active activity (forced or not forced) they will let everything go at some point.

when the other's sad:

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 This one's tricky because based on my life experience: wounds, disapointments and love breakups matter and create new harmful behaviors, traumas and scars on our hearts that can lead to leave friends, family and careers... even suicide. Sadness is the resource that feeds states as depression, aggressivity, disgust and hate for everything. But confronting sadness is a matter of:

•  time and laughter... have fun, go out to dinner, watch movies and offer candies... lots of them, Everybody loves them!
• be sincere with them, no hypocrit comments nor hard feelings that lead them to missery.
• try not to talk about the fact of being sad and tell a worst experience to make them laugh.

But why?

is about making them feel like they have to recover lost faith on themselves and make pain disappear, or ease them by creating good memories. have in mind that sadness also teaches about selfsteem, prudence and intelligence to avoid awkward and awful situations.

it's not about erradicating happyness, but comprehending it

Sad image and info source: https://www.rd.com/health/conditions/ways-avoid-seasonal-affective-disorder/

Angry image source:https://pixabay.com/p-2191104/?no_redirect