The fact that you are in love, doesn’t mean you have to put up with every awkward thing that your lover offers? Love may claim to be a lot of things, but love is not stupid. Many people tolerate absurdities in love simply because they want to avoid conflict. Others have been manipulated into submitting to such abuses because of frequent outbursts of anger by their partner. As such, they will rather live in their abuse, than secure the wrath of the male or female titan, they are involved with.
TRUE LOVE MUST NOT BE AFRAID TO CONFRONT EACH OTHER: Real love is not unquestionable. One of the signs that your relationship isn’t healthy is if legitimate questions are responded to with outburst of anger and extreme reactions. Iron is meant to sharpen iron. Something is therefore wrong if we refuse to be sharpened by the confrontations of our lover.
TRUE LOVE MUST NOT BE AFRAID TO CORRECT EACH OTHER: Those who refuse the privilege of private corrections might have to endure the ridicule of public disgrace. In love, for correction to be effective, it has to be done in private rather than publicly. If your partner cannot correct you at all, it's a pity, you are not in a healthy relationship. During mutual correction it is important for you not to focus on defending and justifying yourself. Rather, attentive listening and authentic application of the corrections made, is the true mark of a matured lover.
TRUE LOVE MUST NOT BE AFRAID TO WALK AWAY: Painful as this sounds, there comes a time when the best thing you can do for a relationship is to walk away. A lot of people remain in a painful relationship just because they are afraid to walk away. If it doesn't work for you, walk away. It might not be that simple, but it must be done. Walk away when your presence with the lover has become a threat to your life and well-being. Walk away when everything you are as a person is being compromised by staying with this person.
I know you may feel this really is tough to do, but what can I say when I discover that a lot of people in my generation are casualties of love? I can only say LOVE ITSELF MUST BE TRULY TOUGH!