Do you know why married can bring blessings ????
this is his explanation about marriage !!!!!
Married is initially beautiful and finally can also remain beautiful. But in the process of maintaining the harmony of the household, many things can happen. Together every time is what every couple wants. However, we all need to know that uniting the differences of two newly-living individuals (after marriage) must be accompanied by a genuine commitment. This is because there will be many differences that must be compromised by couples including the occurrence of problems, especially when the beginning of marriage. The various problems such as financial problems, character differences, marital relationships, attention, and so forth.
"Love does not create marriage. A conscious, planned marriage, creating love. The same thing happens in all relationships."
Sesungguhnya, bukan cinta yang menciptakan pernikahan, namun pernikahanlah yang menciptakan cinta. Meskipun dua insan memutuskan untuk menikah karena adanya rasa cinta, namun setelah menikah rasa cinta akan semakin dalam. Dengan komitmen kuat, janji untuk saling mencintai, setia, saling menguatkan dalam segala kondisi, maka pernikahan dapat berjalan dengan harmonis. Semakin lama bersama, benih-benih cinta akan semakin tumbuh besar. Tugas suami dan istri ialah menjaga benih cinta tersebut agar tetap tumbuh. Rasa cinta bisa mati jika kedua belah pihak tidak menjaganya dengan baik. Kata Kata Mutiara Pernikahan di atas cukup bijak untuk direnungkan bagi banyak pasangan yang hanya bermodalkan cinta dan kasih saying namun tanpa perencanaan ketika menikah.
"A successful marriage is always a triangle: a man, a God."
The key to a successful marriage is a marriage that has a love between man, woman and Allah SWT. This is called the love triangle.
If you want to have a successful marriage, do not forget to have a love triangle involving Allah SWT in your marriage relationship. Love because God will keep you always behave and look. You will also do all your duties and give all your partner's rights sincerely.
If you love a wife or husband for God, then you will have a beautiful love. Love is always blooming and will not go away even though you've been with your partner for years. That boredom will be eliminated by the power of Allah SWT.
"When people get married because they think it's a lifelong love story, they'll split up as soon as possible. because all love stories end in disappointment. Marriage is a recognition of a spiritual identity. "
The intention of marriage plays an important role for the sustainability of the household. The wrong intention will make the marriage not last long. There are still many people who make mistakes when marriage. They think that marriage is their love story.
You must understand that human love will not last. Over time love can fade. This is when the house tanga is threatened and the marriage will end with the loss of love.
Eternal and everlasting love belongs only to Allah SWT. Do not forget to get married for Allah SWT. When you involve God in your loving relationship with your beloved, that feeling of love will last forever to make marriage last.
In the teachings of Islam, married is the sunnah rasul which if done will get a reward. Well, the true intention of marriage is to worship. By marriage we will avoid the sin of adultery that is deeply cursed by Allah SWT.
hopefully can be a lesson for us all !!!
greetings of encouragement :) :) :)