How to find purpose and meaning in your life?
One of the things you need in your life for it to feel purposeful and meaningful is to have achieved some success, as described by you, as this varies from person to person.
To achieve success we need to feel rooted, you need to feel grounded Connected to life and your purpose. This allows you to welcome life and participate fully in the adventure.
If you are still holding onto resentment toward your past, toward your childhood, you probably also feel directionless, unsuccessful and without purpose.
As long as you feel hard done by, as long as you feel things should have been different, you will be like a rootless tree, with every wind storm in life that comes along, threatening anything you have built.
When you are disconnected from our roots you look everywhere to find some new place to plant yourself.
Your parents were your guru, your first teacher. Maybe you have judged their message, condemned their effort, you get what I mean here. But here’s the thing, this is now your unconscious view of life.
So, now you read books, listen to guru’s,you do workshops, maybe you’ve had counselling and/or coaching etc. YET, still not much has changed in any permanent way. You’ve looked everywhere except at the roots of your family tree. Their blood and DNA flows through you, this you can’t escape. Their influence is inside and outside of you.
When you can hold a space for your roots for your history, for the ones who gave you life, like you would for any grieving friend or child. You will automatically nourish the landscape of your life and turn it into the greenest, richest most meaningful, fun loving and successful, sunny view you almost can’t yet remember.
But I know you do.
Terry Dika Volchoff
Transformational Catalyst
Designing your Freedom from the Inside Out
PS. Reach out to me for a Free assessment and I’ll give you all the details on how live with more purpose and meaning, by giving yourself full Permission for Success.
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