Who are you? — SteemCN

Most times I wonder if people actually have what we called values, or having a value you end up breaking it by disgracing yourself and those around you.

A lady who sleeps around to be paid, a lady who exchanges cloths to live big and form big?

A lady who copies the life styles of others by displaying it in her attitude?

A lady who sits in the front seat of all kinds of flashy cars and think that all is well?
Do you think that this world is a place of sowing without rewards?

Listen, no guy out there is ready to accept a cheap twerp as a woman or wife, and no man is ready to keep a woman who cannot be looked up when he is down.

Sleeping around won't make you have the best of the world, because more bests are still coming and you will wish to have them by exchanging your reputation and values to shame and reproach of life.
You can aspire high, you can dream high, and you can live that better life you want to live without spoiling your image.

And to the guys; you care less, you feel too important, you are too proud, you hardly accept your flaws, but yet you never see reasons why those changes are supposed to be made.
Do you think that ladies with high worth and standards would like to stay with a man who has not fought for life, a man who barely feeds himself, or try chasing hard in life, instead all he does is rampage, makes swags, form porch and try begging to use the latest electronics?
It is high time guys sit and think fast, see far, as you begin to soar.
The purpose of any relationship is marriage.

If you are not ready, it is advisable you face your life and aspire high!
Think and be focus cos you only withdraw what you deposit...

Your style is provocative, both of thought as well as of that instinctive 'fight or flight' sensation.

While I trust that your initial dredging of women who sell their bodies for a living is quite intended in this same spirit of intellectual provocation (which is quite clever), I will (perhaps redundantly) say that there is more to this.

Not only is there the element to be considered where such women feel that the course of their lives have led them to such a juncture and that other routes impose unacceptable tradeoffs*...

(* such as not placing her child through a good school, or otherwise not being able to take care of her family or inner circles)

...but is there not also a sliver of dignity to be recognized within at least some of these women for whom the first condition may not apply but who feel that this is what they truly wish to do?

True there are plenty of messed up aspects of the 'way' that it goes about**, but if a woman is truly happy with the concept of trading her physical services for the pay of her willing clients, then what is she to be condemned for other than living to a different beat that at least some of her peers would not?

(**being driven underground by laws, pimps, with the increased risk of abuse that such entails, etc.)

As for whom a man or woman will or will not accept as a partner, far stranger things have happened - and many people change their lives completely when they make that shift.

We live in a World very richly diverse in perspectives. One mistake that we tend to make is the attempt to subjugate this World to conform to one's never-sufficiently-wide perspective. This leads to minorities not only existing but being recognised in a negative way, and then acted against.

It makes more sense to embrace that there is a time, a place and a way for everything - even for things that we would typically balk at.