Why does a husband beat his wife?

Definition of multiplication The beating can be defined as harming someone and harming another person, and usually a punishment for the person who commits the act that deserves discipline and punishment. [1] The beating of the wife under the concept of domestic violence , defined by the United Nations as physical, psychological and sexual violence within the family, includes severe beatings, male preference for females in dealing with them in terms of sexual abuse of female children, Dowry-related violence, genital mutilation of female genital mutilation, and other acts harmful to women [2] . The reasons that lead the husband to beat his wife There are many reasons that allow a man to beat his wife, which is divided according to the following criteria: Reasons for the husband Erroneous beliefs that believes in the man Kaamanh entitlement to hit his wife , and the legality of the beating, and is based in on the Almighty said: (... and those who are afraid Ncuizen Fzawhn and Ahjrohn in their beds and beat them, the Otankm do not Tbgua them a way that God was supreme great) [3 ] The problem lies in the misinterpretation of this verse, which is held by some as evidence and justification for beating their women, forgetting the stages that the verse spoke about first and the second. It is also a sign of the condition of beatings that are not severe, ie, non-severe beatings. Shari'a The severe beatings of women are excessive, and women can therefore ask the judiciary to differentiate between them. [2] The misconduct that the husband has received since his youth from his surroundings, which did not explain to him that beating is not permissible; where many people see this act as a natural and spontaneous act of marital relationship, it is possible that before his marriage was born within the family hits the father where his wife and his children , Which entrenches in the mind of the son of course that the beating is normal, and prepares it for the exercise of this act that he saw in the future [2] . Habits and community miserable, which is entrenched in the mind of the man to beat for the wife is a reform of her, or it is related to the extent of manhood has to prove his character and prestige, or that the practice of beatings anneal more women and makes them implement commands smoothly [2] . The man feeling the desire to dump the emotions experienced during his daily; such as pressing work , anger , jealousy, making him submit to the overthrow of these feelings and discharged in his relationship with his wife , beating [2] . The number of worries and problems experienced by the husband , including the economic hardship that can be suffered by the husband because of poverty and unemployment, and the large number of debts and the difficulty of repaying, which increases the concerns of the husband and feel helpless, including the psychological disorders that make the man in a state of departure from the usual phase, social concerns that increase the flame of unrest between the couple, causing the man to use the means of proving the same beating and violence [2] . A reflection of what you offer different screens and media materials promote violence and encourage the psychological man and influenced by them, as if the man watching pornographic material make it seeks to implement what he saw on his wife, and watch as well as materials related to murder, kidnapping and rape [2] . Pair eating taboos and alcohol , such as drugs and alcohol, making him lose consciousness and mind, because Vidtrh practiced a far cry from the practices of logic, his wife and harm her image , [4] . Choosing a husband for his wife within the obligations of the community around him, Vtzogha is a loathing for her, which leads him to deal with them harshly and violence to keep away from him and alienate him to ask him to divorce [4] . Reasons for the wife Many people forget about the wife's beatings in relation to the duties of the woman towards her home and husband, which may expose the woman herself to the possibility of receiving violence because of her ignorance of these duties, and always focus on the rights that have been violated, and there are a number of reasons related to the wife and exposed to the possibility of receiving beatings from the husband , Including [2] : Because it is not limited to the issues of worship such as prayer and fasting, but it extends to issues related to the duties assigned to her husband and her home, such as keeping him in his money and his son and presenting him and meeting his emotional and sexual needs if there is nothing that prevents him from legitimate obstacles such as menstruation and fasting , Or contraindications to women such as fatigue and disease. To reduce the wife from the value of her husband and the same, and to underestimate him, and barbarity, marginalization, and the degradation of the principles and ideas, and criticism of his behavior, especially if this happened to the sight of people, which reduces the respect of men in the people, and feel humiliated and inferior husband, which may prompt him to avenge his wife Cruel and violent methods to restore his dignity. The erroneous beliefs that carry the wife to act stubbornly and unquestionably believe that they thereby prove their independence and self-realization and liberation, which may make the husband vengeful and seeks to respond to what he claims and says violent methods. The wife's behavior without the knowledge of her husband: The man loves to consult his wife in her actions and actions, and may lead to the husband's knowledge of some of these things as the wife has gone out of obedience, Vdvah to beat it [4] . Hit the wife of the husband: women may bear the characteristics of mannish paid to hit her husband frequently than do cold hit him violently and harsh to maintain his image and his manhood or up to deter [4] . Analyzing the wife with some good traits, the husband a bad transaction in a way [4] . Should both spouses remember at the end of the day that God has made the relationship between them based friendliness, compassion and tranquility, not beating, violence, stubbornness and cruelty, another proof of the verse: (It is that He created for you mates from among yourselves to find repose in them and put between you affection and mercy in this are Signs for those who reflect ) [5] The look of Islam to beat the wife The Islamic law has been concerned with the marital relationship, and many provisions have been enacted to preserve it, establish its foundations, and establish its structure. It has come to the provisions concerning the matters of discord and disagreement between the spouses. Allaah has forbidden all people from encroachment and injustice. smote the wife without a face is a right of assault and injury and injustice to her, because of her right to be treated Virtue; [6] the Almighty said: (and they like Virtue) [7] Allaah has forbidden a man to keep his iqaamah on his wife for the purpose of harming her and insulting her. This is an act of aggression in the verse: "If you divorce women and reach them, then they hold them with virtue or purify them with good deeds and do not hold them to harm and be obedient to them. Shake and remember God's mercy on you and what is revealed to you from the book and wisdom preaches to you and fear God and know that God is everything Alim) [8] It is worth mentioning that the woman 's obedience to her husband and the duty of the duties approved by Islamic law, if out of obedience to her husband 's disobedience and rebellion without any right, Shara has approved a number of things to cure the problem is not the first beating, and these things are [6] : Guidance and advice: That the husband shows his wife and advises that his obedience is obligatory, and reminds her of what God has decreed for him and her rights, gently and leniently, and Zger and firmness according to circumstance and place. Abandonment: If the first step failed and the woman did not respond to her husband's advice, he allowed the husband to leave his wife in bed, to explain to her dissatisfaction with them and displeasure of dealing. Disciplinary beating: If the previous two steps failed, and the husband tried his effort and did not find a satisfactory result, he could beat her disciplinary action provided that take into account several things, namely: Not to beat her severely, which means beating hard, but hit her to reprimand a beating that is not harmful and harmful. Do not be beating on her face. Not to call them ugly words and not insult them. To remember during this step that the purpose of this means of reform is not revenge and revenge. To terminate this method as soon as required. Between Allaah is the correct way to treat a husband with his wife if we find her in saying: "Men are based on women, so Allaah has bestowed on one another and on the basis of what they have spent on their wealth. So the corrects are guardians of the unseen, so God saved them and they fear them. Tbgua them a way that God supreme was great) , [9] was confirmed by the Holy Prophet, he said in the farewell Pilgrimage :"If you do not have a way to do that