It is an old tradition that a girl after marriage leaves her house and goes to boys place... she is made to sacrifice her family priorities, pains, and is compelled to accept husband's family. It is may be because of the sick mindset of people that if women is not working ,it means she is doing nothing. Its man, who is running family ,so he has all the rights , In earlier times man used to earn and woman was always looked upon as liability.
I have just one question why not the other way.
Why not after marriage man can go to a girls house ?
Why is it considered bad ? or why can not girls parent live with daughter and son in law.
In today's society women is working ,and even if old rule is to be followed, as the one who works has all the rights.
Women was always expected to change, to compromise , to adjust in new family.she was the one to get moulded according to mother in laws expectation.
Now its really high time , to change the way world looked upon.
We all must try to bring this change, as we are the real culprits, since birth of a girl ,there remains a discrepancy between our thoughts and our deeds. Thoughts and words says , girls are no less than boys, both are equal , and deeds says, no a boy can not cook, a girl has to play with dolls and kitchen sets, boys will play cricket.
why we are raising our children differently ?
We can still try to change ourselves.
Swapping boys instead of girls will have many advantages
Just imagine -
What if daughters parents live with their daughter and son in law... -
- Girl will become more desirable gender, and hopefully balance gender ratio
- There will be less injustice to women,as she will always be supported by parents,
- No more humiliation,
- No dowry cases ,
- more power, more respect,more confidence , to a women.
- No fights at home.