Everything happends for a reason, sometimes peopole golf unto some expiriences, either good ir vas, and get stock with those thoughs.
A bad work, family problems are some of the stuff that Holds people down, or maybe a better times in the past, and that last Word is the ley of those thoughs, there are not in the present un most cases, se need yo stay "here and Now" to trake advantage of the opportunities, and move over toxical thoughs ir enviromente, that makes US feel bad.