Don’t get me wrong, I do like the idea of having someone to share my life with,
but in all honesty, the timing just isn’t right at the moment.
There are some things you just can’t force, and LOVE is one of those things.

Here are some truth: I’m not yet the person I’m meant to be. I’m closer than
I’ve ever been, but I have a lot more growing to do. And growing I need to do,
at the moment, is best done solo.
You shouldn’t pass up on love if it knocks on your door.
Please don’t do that. You will regret it. There will be time to date.

There will be time to fall in love, start a family and spend your lives together.
Yes, meeting someone you can Love will make you ecstatic.

But on the other hand, why be in a relationship if you can’t make it work?
Why waste your time pretending you can give him or her what he or she needs, when you know you can’t?
I know I wanted to fall in love. But I don’t want to do it half-heartedly. He deserves my fullest attention (whoever he may be). But if I can’t love him the way he needs to be loved, then why put the two of us through all of that? If you aren’t ready for that level of dedication, then don’t get into a relationship.

Same goes with guys out there. You start to show her that you’re interested.
Then she start stalking your profile making sure that you’re not a creep and she thinks that having conversation with you will make her able to know you a little more deep. So you talk and get to know each other but you are all guarded up and you’re just in it to see how long this feeling lasts.

And then one day you’ll tell her that you are not ready for commitment and you create reasons with “it’s not you, it’s me” thingy. But really though? She’s brushing it off like it’s no big deal when so much of her time and effort have been invested into you. Why even bother in the first place?

What is the point of dating someone if you’re not going into it thinking that it will be the last person you’ll ever date? It takes time to get to know someone enough to understand whether or not they’re the one. If you’re not in it to win it, then don’t be in it. Save the two of you from heartache. Don’t cause more trouble for yourself.

Love moves in mysterious ways they say. You’ll never know when it will cross your way. But you must draw the line between Infatuation and Love. One thing is important, LOVE must be felt and it must be real. When it comes, consider it sacred. Be joyfully single while waiting for that pure love. God’s time is the perfect time.

LOVE WHEN YOU’RE READY……NOT WHEN YOU’RE LONELY….

Justsaying 💚 💚 💚