RE: A Mistress shows no cracks to the world

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A Mistress shows no cracks to the world

in bdsm •  7 years ago 

I just don't believe it's necessary to be flaunting paraphilia in public. I don't like having drunks banging on my door at 2:30 am wanting a blow job cuz they think that's what trannies are all about.
I don't like being associated with it.
LGBTQ+ can drop the 'T' any time you like.
Trans is not a sexuality and I've experienced first hand the damage that such images inflicted on how I was perceived and my own child's respect for trans people.

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See isn't it so much nicer to just say what you are tying to say?

Paraphilia now is it? Every person involved with bdsm? big accusation, no history or factual backing but cool, i can feel the anger you have invested in this.

I will point out that your personal experience, while valid and relevant to the tapestry, are not indicative of the whole. I assure you that me and my subs having brunch have nothing to do with your drunken knockers, perspective.

Me being open about my sexsuality is not why generations of cis het men created imagery and tropes of trans women as over sexualized. That's part of the fight, or did you not get the fucking memo? You want to fuckin put my life on blast? Me, fuckin really? You want to shame me, a trans women for the fucked up views created over the last two thousand years of oppression. Me who has raised one Cis child and one trans child? Fuck that, you can take that shit right the fuck back and keep it. You aren't being forced to associate with shit, but the blanket of protection provided by the lgbtq community is saving trans lives every day, we on the ground out here kinda need it so please note you don't speak for those of us trying to stop the rising tide of trans bodies.

Nobody said being trans is a sexuality, neither is queer, inclusion is good, community is good, visibility is good. progress is good, victim shaming...not great, in fact, total shit and extremely damaging.

If out of context, over dramatic meaningless photos like that caused you harm its because there was a lack of critical thinking and understanding, that again is not on me, I am unclear on why you believe that casually framing my life as paraphilia is not continuing that hate? You have just run full circle girl, hows that shit feel when your on the other side? Odd right?

The fact that I revel in my femininity and am sex positive has nothing to do with yours or any child's perspective of trans people. If people are only given negative info that's what they believe, as if i'm only one fucking thing. I cant stand people trying to shove trans p[eople back into boxes. Fuck that I lived that shit, thinking like this forced me to live as a boy for 30 years and fuck that road, I will not be silenced because people cant google transgender women. If all you look at is the sexual then thats all there is but who is going through and only looking at things taken out of context proving their one point, you have any photos of two dads with kiddos on there shoulders enjoying a day at the park? What about a trans women reading her poetry to a room full of people, kids too...
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Oh shit...what was your point...I think I just added..Another Dimension!!!!! Oh shit! People are complex and not defined by one aspect!!

your vitriolic diatribe and foul language is without reason: Most people, straight or gay, have the decency to confine their sexual antics to the privacy of their bed room.

if you lack the ability to talk to the counter points i laid out or put thought into your responses im not going to engage in these conversations with you anymore. You can use the fact that im creative enough to use launguage as your excuse however i think its more your inability to back what your saying, this isnt the school yard, we all have big girl pants on and know our shit. You want to judge you got to back that shit up, i laid out nine seperate arguments and asked six individual questions in almost 9 paragraphs i put thought and time into my responses, giving you respect. You wrote two paragraphs ignoring what i said. One of us is lacking politness dearheart but it aint fuckin me, get your shit together before you fuckin @ me, im no school girl.

o pases