Parenting styles vary widely, and one end of the spectrum often includes strict behavior. I will like to delve into the advantages and disadvantages of parents' strict conduct, and shed light on the detrimental effects of emotional blackmailing.
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Advantages of Strict Parental Behavior |
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Discipline and Structure: Strict parents often instill a sense of discipline and structure in their children's lives, providing a stable foundation for personal growth.
Setting Boundaries: Clear rules and boundaries help children understand societal norms and expectations, fostering a sense of responsibilities.
Disadvantages of Strict Parental Behavior |
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Stress and Anxiety: Excessive strictness can lead to heightened stress and anxiety levels in children, affecting their mental well-being.
Rebellion and Secrecy: Strict parenting may push children toward rebellion or hiding their actions, hindering open communication.
Empathizing with Children Facing Strictness |
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If placed in the shoes of children experiencing strictness, one might feel a mix of frustration, pressure, and a longing for understanding. Empathy is crucial in acknowledging the challenges these children encounter daily.
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Expectations from Parents as a Child |
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Communication: Children often crave open, non-judgmental communication where they can express themselves without fear.
Balance: Striking a balance between discipline and understanding is essential for a healthy parent-child relationship.
Support: Emotional support is paramount; children want to feel supported in their endeavors, even if mistakes are made.
Negative Effects of Emotional Blackmailing |
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- Damaged Trust: Emotional blackmail erodes trust between parents and children, creating a strained relationship.
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- Emotional Toll: Children subjected to emotional blackmail may endure long-lasting emotional consequences, affecting self-esteem and mental health.
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Of course, you are absolutely right that along with strictness, communication and love are very important with children. Because after talking, children will be able to understand your point very well as to why you have been strict. And when he understands that it was his mistake, he will never feel bad about what you said. Therefore, it is very important that children receive love along with strictness.
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Absolutely right @aviral123! Love and communication is the best way to go. Strictness alone will do no good but damage the child. Children wants to feel supported and heard too. Thank you.
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Thanks a lot friend for your participation in this engagement challenge and I totally agree with you that being a children everyone wants no communication barrier in between there and their parents relationship but rude behaviour of parents create a lot of communication gaps between parents children relationship so if you are rude with your children then you should also maintain a balance between your polite and rude behaviour I wish you success in your entry.
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Striking a balance between discipline and understanding children will definitely keep their mental health in good shape. Thank you for your good wishes and engagement.
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Yes I learned a lot from reading your post. It seems that one should know these things before becoming a father. Everything I learned by reading the different content of this competition I never learned before. Thank you very much for presenting this important information.
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I am glad to know. Thank you for reading and engaging.
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Hola @jaytime5,
Gracias por compartir tu entrada para el Steemit Engagement Challenge S14W3. Abordaste un tema importante relacionado con la crianza de los hijos y exploraste tanto los aspectos positivos como los negativos del comportamiento estricto de los padres.
Tus puntos sobre la disciplina y la estructura como ventajas de la conducta estricta son válidos, al igual que las preocupaciones sobre el estrés, la ansiedad y la falta de comunicación como desventajas. También es apreciable tu enfoque en la empatía hacia los niños que enfrentan estrictas prácticas parentales.
El tema de la manipulación emocional es otro aspecto crítico que has tratado. Resaltar los efectos negativos, como la erosión de la confianza y el impacto emocional duradero, es esencial para concientizar sobre este problema.
Agradezco que hayas invitado a otros steemians a unirse al desafío. ¡Espero ver más participaciones tuyas en futuros desafíos de Steemit! ¡Bien hecho! 🌟
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Being too strict on children leaves long lasting emotional consequences and it can lead to heightened stress in them by affecting their mental well-being. I appreciate your engagement on my blog.
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Saludos
Los padres tenemos la responsabilidad de educar a nuestros hijos e impartir normas en nuestro hogar pero debemos hacerlo de una manera equilibrada aunque hay muchas ventajas en ser estricto porque los niños aprenden a tener reglas y normas en el hogar así como cumplirlas mucho de ellos son muy buenos estudiantes pero cuando los padres se exceden de ser estricto pueden desarrollar ellos trastornos en su desarrollo emocional falta de comunicación timidez e inseguridad
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Yes, you are right. There are many advantages of being strict and so as the disadvantages. Parents just needs to balance between both. Thank you for your engagement.
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