"SEC S11W1: Challenging Your Beliefs About Motherhood and Paternity"

Hello, friends of Colombia-Original Community, I hope your day is going perfectly, I shall be participating in this contest titled "Challenging Your Beliefs About Motherhood and Paternity" an entry for the S11-W1 Engagement challenge.

Becoming a father or mother is a choice and individual discretion, not everyone sees the task of parenthood as a fact that makes them complete.

Everyone is complete if they achieve what they see as the purpose of their existence, not everyone sees the state of being complete as only by giving birth and having children alone but by accomplishment what you see is the reason you exist.

Some see their purpose of existing as to meet up with their careers, some are just to become pastors or imams just to be preaching the gospel, others see being complete as starting a family and having children, and others make wealth as their definition of becoming complete.

But looking at these facts, many people see the state of being complete is to start a family and have children to continue the lineage of the family.

But in my own opinion, I see the state of being complete as not just having children but accomplishing what you view as your purpose of existence.

No, children are an additional blessing and responsibility to the parent, as much as demand increase for the parent, they create time and space to meet up to eat.

Even if the parent goal is to have children, they will as well wish to give their children the best so they will still have to work toward all that.

This reminds me of the argument between the father and the mother, who should give up his career to be with the children to have parental care? I see no reason for that, if there is understanding and proper planning, the father and mother and even the children will meet up with their goals at ease.

Is a choice not to have children, people who decide not to have children know the reason why and most have chosen a career or something over having children.

But whatever the reason may be, not having a family or children implied that once you are dead, your lineage seizes to exist. Children are a gift which I see as a primary responsibility to every responsible parent, I don't think is a wise decision to choose a career over family and children.

Having children means responsibilities, expenses, and dedication so not having this sense of commitment and the ability to meet up with this task means you have not met up with the ideal conditions.

Parents have to be mature-minded people not only by age but also have to be healthy and as well be financially stable to be able to feed and have shelter, among other important conditions that qualify you to have children getting ready is very important.

Do not be blinded by the loss of Love to rush you into having children without getting ready, before you can take responsibility, you must be ready.

Children are blessing from God and should be valued, every man and woman needs to see the gift of children as what we should cherish and be proud of, family and children first before careers, and that will make us complete people. Thank you for reading my article.