Total Week 03: 9,3/10
Congratulations.
Dear, @fajrularifst/
You left a couple of questions, very interesting.
I wanted to create an ending that created an absolute feeling of sadness.
1. Can you feel it, Mr. @joslud ? 2. Is it okay for a man to cry?
Yes, dear friend, I was able to connect with that sadness of feeling desolate, and I put jealousy and anger into it, I lived it with the story.
Is it okay for a man to cry?
😂 you are asking that question to a man who cries when something moves me.
Last week, @ifatniza's epitaph moved me in its simplicity and in its essence, I cried for a while, and then I felt liberated.
Whether it is okay or not, that will depend on the culture in which you were raised, but much more, on the permissions that you give yourself to know and express your emotions and feelings.
Of course, I am a therapist and I encourage both men and women to use their emotional intelligence and not repress it.
But it is ultimately a personal assessment, whether you find benefits in crying or not if you are a man.
I hope this very subjective answer can clarify your questions.