It's true that marriage was instituted by God. But man failed at first and lost all what God gave him.

However, that is why God now say he who funded a wife finds a good thing. This mean God removed his hand from giving wives to men.

It's true that non verbal communication can be misinterpreted which would result to conflict in marriage but when there is understand, love and trust for each other, you will find the possible way out without sharing your ugly stories with those outside.