Listening to what other people have to say is not always wrong. Sometimes there are words that will make you feel motivated as if burning the spirit of the soul. But unfortunately a thousand dear, not all the words that come out of other people's mouths are good. If negative comments are seen as demeaning, it's inappropriate for you to feel small and insignificant in their eyes.
The key to happiness can be achieved if you choose to stop being influenced by what other people say. Your life will not always be surrounded by people who agree with you. They also don't always make you feel good all the time. The day you feel the world is cruel to you, that's when you have to survive.
Stop using other people's words as a measure of happiness. You have the right to stay happy no matter the situation, in your own way.
There are thousands of ways for you to appreciate yourself. Belief in yourself and the courage to take a stand according to your heart are just a few examples. Other people will tend to respect you and think twice about doing what they want, if you try to respect yourself first.
Reflecting on the reality, of course there will be some people who don't like you. But that shouldn't be a problem. Like it or not, it's everyone's right, because sometimes it's not your fault. Don't be sad, you are old enough to think wisely.
Just because some people don't like you doesn't mean the whole world hates you. Cultivate the belief that there are still people who think you are worthy. That means you have to treat them well too.
Often, someone often agrees to a request that they don't even want to do. The reason behind this is because of the fear of losing someone else when you refuse something that is requested. For those of you who like to agree when your heart wants to refuse, this is the time for you to be bolder in saying 'No'.
A simple word that sometimes makes you afraid to say it. In fact, if you live by what you want to do, you will be much happier.
Feelings of wanting to be accepted by others are the seeds of trouble. Out there, it's not just one or two people who are willing to do anything just to get recognition. Boro-boro feel happy, the obsession to be recognized by others will later burden you.
Before experiencing suffering, change it with a sincere intention if you really want to improve yourself. Why change yourself just for someone else's sake? Loss of identity yes, profit will not be obtained.
Either way, you won't be able to try to control other people's mindsets. Even if you succeed, of course it will make you very tired. Instead of doing useless things, controlling one's own mind will definitely be much more effective and reap the benefits. Change your focus on others to focus on yourself. By changing your mindset and exploring your potential, you will surely become a more useful human being.
There are some things you can care about, but paying attention to what other people are saying is definitely not one of them.
Who has ever pretended to be happy? If you're one of them, promise me this is the last time you cheat. Not expressing your true feelings can be stressful. Don't be afraid to look sad because you're worried that others will label you as "weak."
Good honest deeds not only apply when you act on other people, but you also have to get used to yourself. From now on, make peace with yourself to feel calmer.
Remember the saying that you only live once. Fill your days with lots of laughter and sweet smiles. What a shame, if life is dominated by misery?
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